2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
A woman enters into a relationship with a set of expectations for a man - kind, considerate, protective and providing. When a man suddenly declares that he is not in this world in order to fulfill other people's wishes, the woman falls into claims and an internal sacrifice. “You must, you must, so everyone says” with this reinforced concrete argument, a woman is trying to hide from her disappointment, feelings of betrayal and deception. Such enmity may begin that not only the windows in the glass will ring, but it will also come to a massacre.
In fact, a woman comes into conflict NOT with a man, but with reality.
Therefore, the conflict can drag on for decades, centuries and generations. Passed like a baton from mother to daughter.
Until the very same woman in the family appears who wants to know, and what is this reality in reality? Does she know how to be kind and considerate to herself, does she know how to protect and provide for herself? And if not, how can you learn it? How to feel your independence, being in a relationship with a man? Or, in another version, how can you make your loneliness resourceful and motivating to move towards your goal?
But the family system still needs to wait for such a woman.
In the meantime, there will be a series of female generations immersed in a state of war and disagreement with reality. They will throw all their strength, their time and life to break a man according to their wishes and expectations, to devalue his strength and talents. And if it is not always possible to achieve success with an adult man, he is able to leave or divorce, then success with his son is guaranteed.
What does it take to change the script?
- Give up stereotypes and patterns, turn to living thoughts
- Find a solution to your conflict with reality
In fact, men are different - kind and cruel, rapists and defenders, poor and rich, fearless and cowardly. And all this can be combined right in one man.
If a woman decides that all her life it is much more profitable for her to feel deceived, disappointed and betrayed, then a man will come to her, who will keep her in this state. In this case, he fulfills her real wishes. The internal state of the victim is often supported by an external aggressor, dictator, despot.
If a woman has decided that despite fears and doubts, misunderstanding of loved ones and imposed patterns, she will grow and develop, a man will come to her, thanks to whom she will marry the red flags.
A man, like a woman, comes to each other for tasks, for the reality that exists in their family system, but definitely not for wishes and pink fantasies, not for patterns and stereotypes.
And what, then, is the role of the conflict?
- Push a woman into reality so that she can see a man as he is, with his tasks and destiny, in all his diversity.
- Draw even deeper into the emotional funnel of loneliness, deception and disappointment, at the bottom of which a woman can only suffer. And this is also beneficial. Someone will regret it …
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