2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
All my articles on constellations are invariably accompanied by questions:
- What are the "buns" and bonuses of deputies?
- What problems does the placement solve?
- Is the constellation a "panacea"?
- Do you need further therapy?
- Are constellations esoteric or science?
- How do strangers find out about how someone's grandparents lived? What exactly could they do and say?
- Is substitution dangerous? Will the roles of other people's grandparents "stick"?
- Who is not allowed to do the alignment?
- What is the difference between a Skype arrangement and a normal indoor arrangement?
There was no exception and yesterday's article, which I wrote on the eve of tomorrow's constellation, where a discussion arose on one of the issues.
The girl went to death for an unborn brother or sister
So, I will answer in order.
What are the advantages and bonuses of substitutes?
The deputies do not come by accident. They fall into precisely those constellations where the client's request and the role they are entrusted with will serve to understand their situations. Sometimes substitutes receive powerful insights that help them solve some of their problems on their own.
What problems does the placement solve?
Placing the problem alone does not solve the problem. Rather, it is a “blitz diagnosis” of the situation that led to the injury, problem, or symptom. Constellation is immersion in the family system, which is usually compared to a tree, and a person to a twig.
Let me give you another comparison. The family system is a mechanism, for example, a car, and a person is one of the screws or parts.
Imagine that only one nut will fall off in the car at full speed. What will happen?
Right. A catastrophe is possible. Timely placement will help avoid this disaster.
Is the constellation a "panacea"?
Based on the answer to the previous question, the conclusion follows: no
Do you need further therapy?
Most often, further work with a specialist is needed. However, after placement, therapy is more successful and ends faster.
Are constellations esoteric or science?
It is difficult to answer this question unequivocally. The method of systemic constellations is called phenomenological, because the processes occurring in the constellation cannot always be explained.
For example, the Deputy Grandfather, who has never seen the client of the constellation before, calls the granddaughter Tatiana - "Tata".
The customer "shocked" says that no one has ever called her that, except for her grandfather.
What happens in the constellation is akin to the collective unconscious.
The method is based on such areas of psychology as:
- Systemic Family Therapy
- Gestalt Therapy
- Bloom effect Zeigarnik
- Transactional Analysis
- Psychodrama
- NLP
- System Coaching
How do strangers find out about how someone's grandparents lived? What exactly could they do and say?
They do not recognize, but "read" in the information field. This is about the same as someone who posted something many years ago on the Internet and forgot, but we accidentally stumbled upon this information or photo when we set the direction in a search engine.
Is substitution dangerous? Will the roles "stick"?
If a certain ecology is observed, the work is not dangerous. After the placement, it is necessary to carry out deroling (to remove the role) or disidentification with the hero whom you replaced
Who is not allowed to do the alignment?
Constellations are not recommended for people with serious mental disorders who are on medication.
How is a Skype layout different from a normal indoor layout?
Practically nothing. Morphic (it is morphogenetic, it is informational, it is also a knowing field) works great in on-line format.
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