Relationship Stages: Friendship

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-07 22:18

Friendship is a serious preparation for Love. During this period, partners become very close to each other. They see each other, hear each other. Trust grows, and with it spontaneity and ease of change. The couple easily exchanges energy, thoughts, feelings. They understand each other perfectly, rarely quarrel. They have respect for each other and common interests. This stage can take a long time.

What is important during this period:

• Strengthening responsibility. Many couples have already shared responsibility among themselves, and it is individual for each couple. Support her in each other and thank your partner for her.
• Openness to change. Like any new period, this stage of the relationship also brings changes, therefore it is also not easy. Expect your wounds to hurt more when your partner changes. Always remember that all of our injuries were from childhood. It may be necessary to change tactics. Let the following be your inner motto: there is nothing permanent than change; each change brings new opportunities; I want to be open to new things in my relationship.

• This is the stage of the renaissance of romance. Light this fire. Plan joint dinners, walks, romantic games. Read books about sex for a lot of tips and tricks. Learn different types of massages, cooking, so that it brings a romantic touch to your relationship. Fantasy to help you.
• Keep investing in relationships. And help your partner in this. It is necessary to help your love ascend, all the time to throw wood into the fire of love.

What to do:

• Don't get defensive: value your partner and play fair. A defensive stance leads to widening and intensifying conflict and foul play. Help your partner in his problem, as you would with a friend. Be condescending, think about what is there that you could forgive a friend, but cannot forgive a partner.
• Find solutions, don't go astray. Remember, there are many solutions. If all the 100 methods that you have already applied do not suit you, then there are 100 more methods that you did not know about yet. When you are ready to give up, know that you are close to the end.
• Adjust your behavior so your partner can change theirs. Always start with yourself. Get in the habit of asking yourself, "What did I do for the relationship today?"
• Hug your partner when you feel like walking away and away. The more you feel the distance inside, the closer you come to your partner physically. Through physical closeness, inner closeness will return to you.
• Don't forget your sense of humor. You can't do without it, but the main thing is not to joke about each other's values.
• Be prepared to back down if you can take your relationship to the next level. Always ask yourself the question: "Do I want to be right / oh or happy / oh?"
• Don't let the past get in the way of your relationship.
• Take responsibility for yourself and treat your partner as an equal.
• "Join hands in the dark and then together you can find the switch."