2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Nearly died while skating
(Story from my life)
Dizziness, weakness, reality floats away. I skated “gloriously”. And it began like this:
As a child, she learned to skate. Then there was a break of 10 years.
When I was 20, I went for a drive on a frozen river, fell and broke my arm. I didn't feel pain right away - shock. She got up and felt that it was bad. How to change shoes? It was impossible to bend down - the blood was already pounding in the temples. When tilted - began to drive. She kept herself from losing consciousness, literally, by an effort of will. January -25. There is no one around. If I pass out, I will freeze.
I breathed vigorously: deep breath - exhale. Somehow I made it to the stairs. The river is located in the lowland. 60 steps led upstairs. I waited, maybe someone will come down. Nobody. The body rested against the frozen, slippery railings of the stairs. Feet - on the icy steps. Skates are in the right hand. The left one hangs like a whip. Blood pounds in my ears. In the mouth - blasphemy. Before the eyes - grayness. She began to climb, dragging heavy, rumbling skates up the steps.
The first step is wow. The second step is a fine fellow. Third, my heart ached. Fourth - Help!
And there are 55 more ahead - pain, despair, hopelessness.
I don’t remember how I got there. I practically crawled home. She sat down on the floor in the hallway, rested against the wall. The father ran up. Exhaled: "The arm is broken."
The arm was broken badly - with an offset. I still don’t carry anything heavy in it.
After the fall - RISE up and CONTINUE THE WAY
(Story from my life)
After a traumatic fall, I didn't skate for many years. Finally she dared to overcome her fear and went out on the ice.
She moved slowly - knees bent, arms extended forward. The body carefully tests movements in the event of a fall. And, of course, she fell. At first, a little. Then she "decided" to test the ice strength with her head. The ice was strong. And the little head hurts. No concussion, only a ghoul on the floor of his head.
I clearly realized that falls and injuries are inevitable, both on the ice and in life. After the fall, the main thing is to get up and continue the journey.
I already know what clothes to wear to the skating rink to soften the blow if I fall. And in my life I use the acquired life experience to minimize injuries.
I choose to live, even though it hurts sometimes. What do you choose?
Perseverance to get out of a difficult situation
There were jugs of milk in the cellar. Two frog friends were walking by. And, of course, each fell into its own pitcher.
The first tried to get out. I realized that it was useless. I folded my legs and drowned.
The second swam, floundered until she whipped the milk until butter. And jumped out of the jug.
Also, one person will tell you convincingly why he lost.
And the other will persistently seek a way out of a difficult situation - and will find it.
And he will also become a more mature person. After all, he survived a serious crisis, overcame it. Got the skill to cope with a difficult situation. A saving path has appeared in the inner world, leading out of the dark thicket of the crisis.
If the crisis knocked him down - get up and … knock him down
Sometimes the crushing blow of life plunges into a quagmire of disappointment and depression. And if you give free rein to despondency, he will gladly drag you into a gray den.
In a crisis situation, it is important to rely on your own resources - a powerful force that will help you return to a fulfilling life.
My resources: Sports and Nature. And if apathy captivates, then a walk in the fresh air will begin to work wonders. To do this, you need to turn on the will, break away from suffering and go out into the street.
The first week - with heavy resistance. The second is with a light warm-up. A month later - on roller skates in the park. After 3 - on the wings of happiness I take off on a morning run.
Each has its own resource. What is yours? Let's find out.
Take a pen and 5 sheets of paper.
1. On each sheet, write 1 situations from your life when you were successful or happy.
2. Under each situation, write 10 points, what then brought you such joy? What or who surrounded you? What and how did you do?
3. Analyze the answers on each sheet and identify several that are similar. For example, sport was present in all 5 successful situations.
4. These are your resources.
5. Let them have a healthful effect on your present life.
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