2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Zoe came home from the party and lay down on the bed. At that moment, she felt tired, which she did not notice, and the joy that she was at home.
Now she could relax. She was alone at home. Lately, secular parties have only brought her tiredness. She used to expect them, but now she has lost interest in them. Once upon a time, visiting such places brought her pleasure. She wore an evening dress, beautiful shoes, some kind of jewelry … And now she was looking for a reason to quickly escape from there.
It was another attempt to have fun, to have a pleasant evening. But never finding what she wanted, disappointed left her.
"Why do I go there?" Zoya asked. “I am the owner of an atelier, I create models of clothes, I have a staff. Oh yes, how did I forget - this is additional advertising, exchange of news, what are the latest trends in the fashion world.
So I can learn about it from the Internet, read magazines, watch the fashion channel. What am I doing there? It is simply necessary that people know about me, appear in places where there are people who are doing the same thing as me and potential clients. Nothing replaces live communication. My father once told me that this is an important part of the business. And I blindly follow this covenant. However, it is useful. But only for business.
So this is what happens: it's like overtime! And I'm going there to rest. Now it is clear from where my fatigue is the continuation of work, but I do not like to work after the end of the working day. Then I deceive myself into thinking that I am going to relax. Otherwise, I will not go there: "I have time - an hour of fun!" How do I lure myself there? It remains only to be deceived and decide that I am going to drink champagne and communicate with ease.
Ugh, what nonsense. How else? What can I offer myself in return to compensate for overtime hours? Subscribe to the award. No, it won't do … I just thought of it - to extend my vacation for a couple of days! Exactly, good, otherwise I save everything on myself in the number of days spent at sea. I’m eager to get to work, but here’s a reason to stay on vacation.
I am also angry with the men who flirt with me during the evening. It's nice, but they behave as if they came to a party to meet someone. This is a business meeting … Yes, it’s a business meeting for me, a pastime for them. Why am I going there? To show yourself and talk about your plans, but not get acquainted. It was at discos I could play pranks, but in such places … This is work and I do not mix contexts!
How I cleverly confused everything that I didn’t even notice it. How do they know why I am coming there? If only now I myself have found out what my goals are when I appear at such events."
Zoya got out of bed, stretched sweetly up. Ease of movement and joy returned to her. She wondered where she would love to go and with whom she would spend this time. I remembered about a friend with whom we had made an appointment for a long time, and decided to call her tomorrow and go somewhere. They loved to sit in a quiet, cozy cafe, where no one bothered them to tell each other stories about life.
From SW. gestalt therapist Dmitry Lenngren
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