2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Each of us develops life in its own way, but it is the childhood experience that largely determines our ideas, beliefs and outlook on life
And if now you are going through difficult situations and want to find a way out for yourself, if you want to have a profitable occupation that would bring both pleasure and the desired income, if you want to learn to live easily, then it is necessary, first of all, to change your blocking beliefs …
And I will share the story of how it happened with me.
Observing the reality available to me, I very quickly learned the fact that nothing is easy and simple in life.
Realization, as for me, is so myself, because, living with him, I was firmly convinced that in principle there can be no pleasure from the process of work and study. After all, if everything is so hard, then what kind of pleasure can we talk about.
But studying was always easy for me and I perceived new information, as they say, “on the fly”. But instead of enjoying it (which would be completely inconsistent with my conviction), I burdened myself with an incredible amount of additional activities until I began to feel tired and exhausted. I created for myself a huge number of difficult problems to solve until there was a feeling that I was not doing anything.
Thus, the conviction that nothing comes easily in life was confirmed categorically!
If you choose an aphorism for this period of my life, it would be "Don't look for easy ways!"
Perhaps it would have continued like this, if at one wonderful moment (the tale is easy to tell, but it is not easy to do it), I would not change my outlook on life exactly 180 degrees.
Of course, this was not very easy for me. Here my conviction did not require additional efforts on my part to confirm.
Many hours of individual therapy, observation and assimilation of life examples, which happens in different ways, allowing herself to choose the profession that, in the first place, would be a pleasure - all had their effect!
The new period of my life was focused, first of all, on learning to live easily and enjoy life.
Of course, this is not at all about the fact that you do not need to put any effort in your studies or in the process of work. It's about what exactly there is a difference, with what attitude and with what convictions we begin to perform this or that task.
It was important for me to learn to distinguish "Sisyphean work" from "kindred work", which also requires effort, but also evokes a feeling of deep satisfaction.
If you choose an aphorism for this period of my life, it is: “Life is like a ride on a bicycle! When it's hard for you, then you go uphill!"
Because it turned out that there are a lot of pleasures in life. One has only to learn to notice and accept them with a smile and gratitude!
Now in my life there are many interesting projects. Work is more and more enjoyable, despite the fact that it still requires a lot of effort and resource investment.
But I do what I love! And this is very valuable and important to me.
It should always be remembered that although "we are not able to change the direction of the wind, but we can learn to set sails!"
And what blocking beliefs prevent you from feeling the ease of life?
Sign up for a consultation and we will look for a way out together!
With love, IRINA Pushkaruk
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