2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Yesterday I wrote an article "When they stop loving you. And I received a question from my subscriber" Should I communicate with my ex-husband?"
The question seemed to me so broad that I decided to devote an entire article to answering it.
Is a friend zone possible for ex-spouses?
No!
Even if you have common children, you don't need to be friends with your ex-husband. Unless, of course, you are considering reuniting.
If you decide for yourself that "no, I want to move on," then friendship with your ex will put a fat cross on this path.
Why? Because subconsciously you will be in a relationship with a man. Therefore, it will be difficult for you to consider another as a partner. This feminine trait is associated with the presence of a female survival instinct in the brain.
Men have a slightly different way of life. They can (not all, of course) be friends with the former and at the same time build relationships with the future.
You can talk with your ex-husband about raising children and accept money and other help for children from him. And then, you need to think hard about how much to get help from him.
No!
No, especially if you have no children in common with your ex-husband.
If, of course, you want to meet another man and build a close relationship with him.
No correspondence, no calls, even completely innocent ones, like "Hello. How are you? Are you okay?"
No joint trips to the theater, even if you have no one to share the premiere of the film with and the available two tickets to it.
There is no information specially found for him and transmitted to him from the Internet.
No pies baked in honor of the holiday and brought to his mother, that is, your ex-mother-in-law.
If you were friends with your mother-in-law and want to maintain a relationship with her and only with her, then why not. But why complicate things?
"Leaving, go away" is not easy for women. And seeing a photo of your ex in short pants on the arms of your now ex-mother-in-law is an additional test.
When is friendship between ex-spouses still acceptable?
When both of you, and I emphasize, both, are considering reuniting.
In all other cases, no, no, and again no.
Help articles:
"A holy place is never empty" Or why is it delayed
Five signs that a relationship is dead or in a "coma"
How to stop thinking about who left you.
Olga Fedoseeva, I help to love myself
THE PROGRAM TO GET MARRIED IS EASY. FOR WOMEN 35+ Accompaniment to the result. Hurry up to fit in
If it is difficult for you to walk the path to what you want alone, I invite you to work together!
