2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
We all sometimes dream about what we would like to have, who we would like to be and what we would like to do and experience. Most of us have heard and read recommendations that in dreams you should focus on the state that you want to experience at the time of the fulfillment of your desires and train to practice these states.
However, what we consciously dream of may well contradict what may be our unconscious desire.
Our unconscious is so incomprehensible that it can form desires with any characteristics … For example, after careful research and analysis of your actions and typical reactions, you can come to the realization that a true desire, for example, is a state of overcoming difficulties or constant confirmation of the worst fears.
Sometimes it is not easy to come to the understanding that the problem that happened is, in fact, the realization of an unconscious desire, or that this is the very “magic pendel”, which will now definitely require changes that were previously postponed or were not considered necessary.
And yet, in each of us there is a place in ourselves, into which we "come" when we get tired of mentally fussing
This is the place where it's easy. Only in a state of lightness can one rest in this world.
How "easy" is that? Ease is when fears and anxieties lose their hold on us.
Ease - this is a form of psychic transparency, when nothing can hurt, passing easily through. In the moments when we are in a state of such ease, everything is surprisingly successful. Many of us have probably noticed that the moment anxiety and fear let go of us, reality magically sags under us.
This is not mysticism, this is the very state of the flow, where you do not struggle with something, but move in your own! true! direction.
There are many techniques for working out fears, anxieties and other conditions that impede mental comfort. Modern techniques are diverse and effective, but they have one common drawback. They, like almost any practical information, come from outside. In this context, I recall the metaphor that “when an egg is broken from the outside, life stops, and when an egg is broken from the inside, life is born.
In the most critical life situations, for example, when a person finds himself in a life-threatening situation, many of the realizations, understandings and visions come from within.
That state, which in NLP is called Essential, at certain critical moments or periods of life, can "roll" itself, without the use of techniques and study of mental mechanisms. At such moments, there is often a realization of the essence of the main existential question. The question is who am I? and where are my boundaries? The boundaries of my physical existence, the boundaries of my "power" are here. Such awareness is essentially the opposite of the illusion of childish omnipotence and frees one from false, imposed values and the suffering associated with them.
This is valuable, and, perhaps, is the important message that comes to us this way. This allows you to experience exactly that ease, which is stronger than the fears and illusions of complete control of your life.
Does this mean that if we learn to experience all this voluntarily, we are guaranteed a life without shocks, losses and risks? …Hardly…
Events and changes will still occur, and we will still gain understanding and awareness from within. And they will be the most reliable for us! And only on them will our True internal changes be built.
These realizations are as unique and subjective as the individual unconscious.. there are no two alike.. They cannot be artificially “engrafted” on oneself.
Various techniques imply the option - believe it, accept it, apply it !. It is effective and sensible in the context of many life situations. However, it will not replace your own discoveries and insights.
We are not talking about a state of "such enlightenment" where earthly goods and everyday affairs become alien. The point is that the moments when we are unbearable are the moments when we have the opportunity to “start seeing in a different way”
This is the “gift” that is sewn into every test. It can be overlooked and "left without a gift", or you can go to a new page and use it.
Sometimes it is difficult to determine what all this can give and what to teach? And is science needed at such a price?
You can try to find answers to these questions when the cry of the soul escapes: why?.. why me?.. how could this happen?
After any operation, a rehabilitation period is required. only after which it is possible to fully appreciate the meaning, the result of what has happened and the new that comes. There is no universally shared list of realizations that everyone should acquire in the course of life. Everyone has their own meanings and ways. What you feel and realize at a difficult critical moment is definitely a part of your life program, a part of important meanings that could not come to you in another way.
And of course, it is worth remembering that "only the weak are sent on a safe path" (p.)
