Victimization Perspectives

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Victimity is visibility for monsters. Because once they touched the soul and body. They left their own scent, which is now unmistakably looking for those to whom it is easier to get close.

Speaking about the smell that the monster leaves, I'm talking about the wound that remains in the psyche. And subsequent rapists try everyone's teeth, but those who already have a previous wound will break faster and more likely. Yes, it is very easy to blame for victimization. Because on the outside it looks completely different from the inside. When the initial wound is not visible, then the victim really looks rather strange - why is this so much happening to him? completely different. It is unlikely that anyone would think of blaming a wounded doe for not running away from a predator as quickly as others, and thus “substituted, because she wants it.” The wound always limits. Enhances sensitivity. Changes a person, making him in something much more capable, and in something completely incapable. And then the question is not to stigmatize oneself or another, but rather to change the perspective of perception - to see a new body scheme, to recognize the pattern of injury, to distinguish new abilities and limitations. And in connection with all this, reconsider your attitude to another or to yourself and your life. And in order to see this picture undistorted, it is very important internally (and in dialogue, if possible) to give the blame. First of all, to the authors of the first wound. And further down the list. Victimism is like the front door to two rooms at once. And they are as different as those two pills in The Matrix - red and blue. They are opposites. Through the theory of victimization, it is possible to reduce guilt and the risk of falling into dangerous situations in the future. Or you can increase this guilt to ridiculous proportions and give all the responsibility to the victim. After all, the theory itself is not evaluative, only descriptive: "This is connected with this and therefore this is happening. On this occasion, you can do this and this." But like any powerful weapon, it is very important in whose hands it ends up. With what motives it is used and what purposes it serves.