Awl On Soap

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

As often happens that respectable in all respects and so-called "decent" couples suddenly break up and we already see before us not a dull, harsh professor - a nerd, but a youthful gentleman in fashionable glasses and a new suit, gently cooing with his young passion, so … twenty years younger. Or a very young lady admiringly looking at her personal fitness instructor.

What could be the motives of all these stories?

Let's figure it out in more detail.

Perhaps one of the most significant reasons for most divorces is that partners cannot stand monotony and stagnation in relationships.

There is an irrepressible thirst for life and a desire to make up for all the "missed" opportunities and follow the instills of your soul.

Everything seems to be logical and smooth! But, there is always but, be it wrong!

Of course, a new partner inspires us to solve new problems, thereby bringing us closer to the state we would like to be ideally and revealing our new facets. And we haven't felt this way for a long time! And we seem to be reborn again and awaken from a long painful sleep.

And, finally, our true "I", which has been suppressed for so long, is released! This is real magic!

Only now the magic lasts exactly until new life difficulties and serious obligations appear in the relationship. And taking into account the fact that old obligations (for example, to children, at least for normal people, do not disappear anywhere), then over time everything becomes as it was again or even worse.

All the sadness in this situation is that you brought all your heavy burden of old beliefs and ideas about family life into your new relationship.

And you again have the feeling that you, sorry, have changed the awl for soap.

There are, of course, different scenarios for the development of events.

There are second marriages that are very happy. This is when people have worked through their negative attitudes and beliefs and really come into new relationships without a heavy burden, having made the necessary conclusions and doing serious work on themselves. It happens that people, again after such work, remain married and find solutions for themselves that help them build further, more harmonious relationships with each other. It is important to take into account that whatever decision you come to, it is necessary to work with your beliefs and character. You need to learn to understand exactly your needs and know what your personal happiness will be in a relationship.

Only then the expected result from the proposed changes will be closer to reality, and not to the result that one magician received in the famous song about a thunderstorm and a goat.

Can't decide which decision to make? Are you afraid that the result of your decision will be unpredictable or even terrible? Ask a specialist for help!

To destroy the old and start moving towards renewal, it is enough to take the first step today! The most effective practices are already waiting for you!

With love and respect, Inna Sotnikova, your ambulance!:) 🚑🚑🚑