2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
When you are faced with strong feelings or a difficult period of life has come, you want to be given a pill and it's all over. You go to friends, relatives or to a psychologist for advice, hoping to hear a "quick" solution to the problem. Unfortunately, this is not how the world works!
Acute senses are basically a symptom that we want to relieve. But, behind this feeling there is always a problem that gives such a reaction. The pill won't help here!
At the same time, we understand that if we want to have a toned body, then it is not enough to take a pill, but "we must" go to the gym and monitor our diet. Or, to get rid of a bad habit, you don't buy a miracle cure. Day after day we have to make a certain decision, this is the only way we get the result!
But, having come to a psychologist, we mistakenly think that they will give us the "pill" that we want so much and we will understand everything, life will change at once and it will not "be necessary" to make efforts every day.
There is no such pill! It is important to understand this so as not to be disappointed when the result does not come instantly.
There will be improvements! Step by step, your life will change positively!
Change is a process, tune in to it!
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