2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Each of us has many ways to achieve desires in our arsenal. Something comes true, something we rewrite from year to year. How can you achieve your plan?
Probably, it happened to everyone in life that something that I really wanted to work out. There are many examples of this in my life. Even what at the beginning (making a wish) seemed unreal, in the end, after a while, I got it.
When I realized that a lot of my plans were being realized, I began to look for reasons why other desires did not come true. After analyzing, I came to 3 conclusions:
1. Our desires can block others with their opinion.
2. We are not given to dream that we cannot receive.
3. Everything that I wanted in spite of the prevailing circumstances, I got.
Often times, other people cause us to mistrust our own dreams and desires. For some reason we can trust others more than ourselves. As a result, we either postpone our dream, or abandon it altogether. It is important to remember that everyone has their own life, their own circumstances and experiences. Someone is really unrealistic to realize desires like ours. Or they don't feel like putting in the effort. Such people will slow us down.
The second conclusion is very easy to verify. Ask your friends and loved ones what they dream about. And also check with them if he had experience in realizing the most cherished desire. You will see that we all want different things. Sometimes something will match, but it will be difficult to find a 100% match. Therefore, you should know that your dreams and desires do not just come to your mind. They are waiting for the time to come and they will come to you.
And we get what we want just when we begin to trust our inner voice and move forward, even if others shout “no, it won't work”. Under such conditions, we begin to see external and internal possibilities. The external world offers us, people, and the internal ones are our abilities, resources, talents, character traits, inquisitiveness, perseverance, confidence, faith in ourselves. All this is revealed to us and in us.
If we cannot get something, there is a reason for that. Most often ours is internal. Consciously, we want a lot of things, but our unconscious part can block. Why? We have a very strong motive. Stronger than our desire.
What to do?
Write down those desires that could not be realized. And write the internal and external reasons why they did not come true.
Internal reasons: fears, insecurity (both in yourself and that you can get what you want), lack of motivation, the habit of relying on the opinions of other people, the habit of relying on the fact that other people have to give us something, the habit of blaming in all others, our false beliefs and attitudes.
External reasons: certain circumstances (attention, they should not be eternal), the influence of the opinions of other people, financial circumstances, temporary circumstances (a life period in which it is objectively impossible to realize a desire), lack of information.
I highly recommend that you analyze your unfulfilled desires that travel with you from year to year. And also make a wish list for the new year. Write in it even the most "insignificant want". They will help make big dreams come true.
What is the list for?
- To understand if your desires come true.
- So that you can see your "want" throughout the year and make efforts to implement them.
- Desire written on paper - to become a goal. And the goal can always be achieved.
I wish you success.
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