2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
To begin with, not all men behave with women in this way. For many, such a model of behavior is simply unacceptable, due to the fact that they do not see in it opportunities to feel comfortable with a woman, and simply inner convictions do not allow them to behave like that.
When a man humiliates a woman and does it purposefully, and constantly this may indicate that he has some of his own internal problems that he cannot solve. Most often we are talking about low self-esteem or dissatisfaction with their social status.
It is extremely important for a man to be respected and appreciated, especially in society. If a man does not receive such support from others for some reason, then most likely he will begin to raise his self-esteem and significance at the expense of the woman who is next to him. This model of behavior is often used by weak, internally, men, humiliating a woman, they get the false impression that they can be stronger, but the woman is actually suffering. For such representatives of the masculine gender, such personal traits as envy, pettiness, a tendency to condemn everything and everyone are often characteristic, they, in most cases, are afraid of responsibility and seek to shift it onto another at any opportunity. Fear for them is a very significant feeling, sometimes it is he who is the main reason for such an attitude towards a woman, since she is more defenseless and will not be able to provide adequate resistance. Moreover, we are talking more about the verbal component, since physical actions also imply responsibility.
It is surprising that some women continue to live with such men. They come up with all sorts of excuses for themselves that they live for the sake of children (a complete family), it's scary that a man will die without her, and so on. Thus, they, as it were, secretly give their consent to such an attitude towards them, in the hope of magical changes. It should be understood that if a person has no desire to change, no amount of persuasion will save the situation. And men often confuse changes in themselves and changes, as it seems to them for others. Indeed, in fact, a person always changes for himself in the first place. The position of women, in such cases, is the position of the victim, but it is important to understand why this sacrifice is. An often overlooked fact is that our lives are very time-limited. In addition, such behavior can adversely affect children, more precisely, on the formation of a model of the relationship between a man and a woman.
A woman, of course, should not tolerate such an attitude, it is necessary to learn how to resist such words and actions on the part of a man, and if the situation is critical, then parting is not the worst option. Women are also scared by the fact that there is a belief that they allegedly will not be able to find happiness and family again; here it is worth paying attention to the fact that beliefs exist only in a person's head, in reality there are a large number of options.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
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