2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Kitchen and bedroom can reconcile spouses.
The table is the main element of the kitchen. Whatever happens, do not eat separately from each other. Often, during quarrels, you want to eat later, or in another room. However, this can only alienate you from each other.
A meal together, even if in silence, is a certain ritual performed by you together. You will always have a sense of belonging and interaction. As a rule, it becomes necessary to exchange a couple of phrases, to submit or bring something.
Of course, spouses can expect something from eating together, and expectations are not always met. In this case, the idea of respecting tradition and respect for each other is important in the fact that the couple chooses to eat together at the table, despite the disagreement. From the category of "war is war, and lunch on schedule."
What can a wife expect? That she will be thanked and appreciated.
What can a husband expect? That the conflict is over, especially after a couple of friendly phrases at the table.
BUT! The spouse can simply leave the table and continue his business. And in this case, you should not aggravate the conflict because of this, and tell him that you could not cook. Always think that there are conflicts after which a man may not support you in the marriage tradition and, at best, skip dinner or lunch. You should not focus on his ingratitude, so that one fine day of a quarrel he does not prefer your cooking to food in a restaurant or at home.
As for the wife, cooking and eating together is not a way for her to resolve the conflict. Yes, emotions can subside a little, the spouse can become warmer. However, until the problem is solved, lunch is not a reason to turn a blind eye to her. Moreover, if a man decides that they have reconciled, for a woman this will mean that he levels her feelings, values and desires, in general, with everything that was touched upon before the conflict.
As for the bedroom, I’ll write this: UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO YOU SLEEP A GORGEOUS!
When you sleep separately, you deprive yourself of a certain contact, interconnection, and falling asleep, you do not feel the smell and warmth of your life partner. You move further away as you fall out of each other's energy field.
We spend most of our time on the robot and in our sleep. If for some reason you sleep in different beds, then count how much time you spend together in a day. “Sleep together” will probably be the highest quality time spent together, where you are just the two of us in a fairly small area.
And finally. There is a saying:
A wise woman, even having quarreled with her husband, will still cook for him to eat. A wise husband, even if he's right, will come and kiss his wife.
In one of the apartments in Warsaw, in the bedroom, I saw a white canvas on which it was written: Mr is The King of the room. And then there was the same sign in the kitchen, with the following words: Mrs is The Queen of the room.
There's something about it!
So buy a bigger table and a narrower bed:)
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