2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
How can a girl learn to communicate with a man? First of all, she learns by observing her parents and other family members, people who are present in her life. Heroes of books and films can also be models. But, the main role model is, of course, mom. If a mother has a trusting, respectful relationship with men, then her daughter has no problems with that either. But, such women do not turn to a psychologist. Those who are not satisfied with their real relationship, they understand that they are doing something “wrong”, but they simply don’t know how to behave differently.
Practical example
At the consultation, a girl, 26 years old, this is not our first meeting. The client's consent to the publication has been received.
- I want to communicate with a man, but I'm afraid. - What are you afraid of? - I myself cannot understand. - Draw your fear of communicating with a man.
- Two swords and lips. These are the men who fought for the beauty, in the picture her lips. These are valiant, honest men, musketeers. One of them won, the blood of the vanquished is on the sword. - What happens next when one of the opponents has won? - The winner stays with the woman, marries her. I remember yesterday's dream: my sister is getting married, but she is all in black. And even the veil is black. - What is associated with a black wedding dress? - Marriage is death. I remembered the second dream: I am surrounded by men, they are very aggressive. The only way not to die is to seduce one of them. Mom said that with the help of sex, she resolved conflicts with her father. I remember how angry he was when he drank. Parents' fights are the scariest sight of those that have been in my life.
- I am afraid that the man will turn his sword against the woman. - You said that in the picture valiant, honest men are fighting. How can it happen that the sword of such a man will be directed at a woman? A worthy man fights only with men. - (With surprise). Probably, this can happen if he confuses her with a man. If she behaves like a man, compete, fight him. Then the man perceives the woman as an enemy, and fights with her in family life. Mom said to my father: “I am more of a man than you. You earn a penny from your higher education”. My father worked as a surgeon, patients and colleagues respected him, but my mother really earned more. - What can be done so that a man understands that there is a woman next to him? - I dont know. - What does a man want from the woman's mouth depicted in the picture? - To kiss, smile, say pleasant words, respect him. Then his sword will be sheathed. Only I don't understand why he can be respected. - To attract the attention of a woman, the man risked his life, turned out to be brave, dexterous. The winner. Are these qualities worthy of respect? - Yes, these qualities are worthy of respect. He also showed perseverance and desire to get things done. - A man rests inside the family, outside - he fights. He can "fight" not with a sword, but with the help of his knowledge, skills, intellect. He can "fight" for position in society, material resources, titles, sports achievements, etc. A man can have different trophies. Of course, he wants proof from a woman that for her he is a hero - a winner.
- Of course, it is important for him. - And what if I don’t like something, doesn’t suit him in his behavior? - What would the mouth do in this case? “The mouth would tell a man what he doesn't like and what he wants. - So draw your own conclusions. After all, the mouth belongs to a beauty, for whose attention men are fighting.
When a girl does not have a model of trusting, respectful relationships with a man, it is not easy to create and implement them in her life. But it is possible. And the first step is realizing that such a relationship can exist.
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