2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Such, here, a funny picture to walk on the Internet. On the one hand, it is familiar and somewhere even funny. But to be honest, there is something about her that confuses me. This is a demonstration of the conventional regulation of the parent's behavior, or, roughly speaking, the importance of public opinion and playing the role of a "good enough parent" in public, not understanding the child's needs, and not understanding why, in fact, all this is being said.
The difference in relationships will be so striking if a parent allows himself to be physically punished. You can observe how a child is spanked on the street on the bottom or hands, without explaining anything. Another situation, when a parent uses all these "correct phrases", he does not succeed, since this is normal in the process of mastering phrases - there is no magic in them by themselves - these are just phrases spoken to the place, in time, clearly and clearly, by the age of the child, formulated, and, most importantly, consonant with the state of the parent.
I am faced with such situations: "I try, I tell him, but everything is useless, he still does his own way", or "this time I hold back, and then I still break down", "he hears nothing and does not understand." But what is at the forefront? It is impossible to understand what the child wants, what his needs are, if his own needs and states are not fully realized. "Is that what he yells? What is he missing?" Oh, really, what? And how does an adult react to this? And how do you react to this?
I am now coming to the end of the aerobatic group of a new online course, more precisely, a marathon about feelings, which is called "Pud of salt", where we examine and study each feeling in great detail, performing daily exercises. This is a difficult marathon, only for the most motivated, as it makes you seriously think about a lot, and face a choice - understanding what is happening, take responsibility for your feelings, states and reactions, change the situation, or leave it as it was. If everything goes well, then after the holidays I will open an entry for this marathon for everyone (however, you can already cast your bait, a group of no more than 6 people).
And now I propose to talk about this picture. What's wrong there? or is it so?
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