2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Girls over 40 - they are such girls! They have long forgotten the romance of 15-year-olds, the active enthusiasm of 25-year-olds, and the rational pressure of those over 30. They saw a lot. Then they closed their eyes. Then they opened their eyes. And they saw a new world, new themselves, new life.
They believe in the best again, because the worst, as a rule, has already happened to them. And they survived - precisely in order to believe in the best again. They get the best: because they are able to see it even where other little ones do not notice. They have a sharpened look, sensitive hearing and gentle hands. Therefore, it is, this is the best, it clings to them, and clings
They are beautiful. No, what are you - they are not cute. They are amazingly beautiful, because they admitted that they have exactly such priests, such exactly these breasts, such noses and such legs. They've learned to love those priests-breasts-noses-legs.
They know the secret, these girls are over 40. They have already eaten these jokes about "millions", "careers", "success" and "social status". They now know for sure that the most important thing is not at all what is shown on TV, writing on the Internet, posting on social networks and talking at trainings.
They know the most important thing about this and keep quiet. About the fact that the main thing in life is life itself: its taste, color, rhythm, smell, the ability to enjoy and rejoice every day.
For a long time they have not had polished phrases, prepared methods of seduction and duty outfits for the exit. They have ceased to "be in active search." They found the one they needed so much all these years - themselves, the real ones.
And it turned out that such, real, they are very, very interesting to everyone around. Well, almost everyone, and worthy men - even more so. They again know how to cry bitterly and laugh excitedly.
They have already departed their own in a bulletproof vest of social decency, requirements, prohibitions and permits. They got tired of holding themselves together, they unclenched their hands - and they were free, alive, sensual, real.
They live as they breathe: now violently, now quietly, now gently and barely audible, now hastily and recklessly. They breathe in the rhythm of life, live in the rhythm of breathing. Finally, after 40, they began to get it: to live at the same time as life.
Girls over 40 are terribly curious. Somehow it so happened that after "Yes, I know everything myself!" begins "oh, girls, how many cool things around!" And dancing, and yoga, and programming, travel and cooking. They create life, string the beads of their new talents that have opened up like a breath, they paint pictures, paint plates and conquer mountains. And they succeed.
Girls over 40 are not at all aunts. They wear long skirts because they are very pretty. And short ones are also worn, and jeans. And different jewelry, from domestic to Indian, throwing expensive "branded" jewelry into the boxes.
They no longer need to prove that "I also have diamonds." It is important for them that they like it. They don't want to know anything about "fashion", "trend" and "this season". They need to be beautiful for them personally. And there is a lot of feminine beauty in this, warm and unhurried.
Girls over 40 stop counting calories. Because love, interest, movement, passion, inspiration work much better than fitness rooms and plastic surgeons. Well, yes - that's why they became so beautiful.
Girls in their 40s sent all the time management, motivational speeches and transformational speeches far and long. They know the value of every minute, they have time everywhere, they are not late for anywhere, because they are in no hurry. Do not reach. Don't fight. They don't. They just live. And they know for sure that in another 40 everything will be so much more interesting.
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