2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
You've probably already noticed that as soon as money appears in your life, even if in the form of a salary, it immediately disappears somewhere. And it seems that everything important and necessary has been bought and all debts have been returned. But again there is not enough money and again you have to go and ask for a loan.
Or, on the contrary, you always have money, you are zealous and good friends with numbers, you even know that it is better not to lend to the person who asks you for a loan. But something happens inside you, some kind of pity rises or even guilt to refuse, and you again lend and, again, they do not return it to you.
30 years ago, life on loan was even impossible to imagine. But now it is topical, so profound changes have taken place in society. Loans are taken to pay off past loans or buy a TV or refrigerator. As if a person is not able to manage his budget so rationally as to cover the necessary household needs. But the strangest thing is that it is really difficult for many people to raise money, not only for a car (I am already silent about an apartment), even for a washing machine. Something not clear begins to happen both with the person himself and with the accumulated amount. Either unforeseen and urgent expenses appear from scratch, then money is unexpectedly lost, then an illness arises in the midst of complete health, and the person again finds himself in a debtor's state, even if he really did not want it.
Many are so used to living on loans and borrowings that they do not consider it a problem. And there is an excuse, now everyone lives like that.
But what do you say if you find out that money is an indicator of the level of your resources? And when you lend, and then you cannot return the money, you are in fact letting your resources be used, which no one will ever return to you. When you take out a loan from a bank, you also allow your resources to be used, since you return everything with interest, that is, you give a lot more of your resources than you borrowed. Someone is quite happy with this, living on debt, this is also a way of being.
But those who want to understand this, understand their condition of the debtor, find out what reasons it hides, and begin to get out of this state …
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