2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
While you were waiting for her to love you the way you wanted, you didn’t notice that every time you did less and less something, so that she would continue to love you.
While you accused her of lying, infidelity - you did not notice how often you deceived yourself and was on the verge of betrayal, and maybe even crossed that line.
While you were waiting for her to understand you, I did not notice how I left her alone, and then she understood that you were not her man and she had nothing to understand.
While you ignored her calls, her attention - you forgot that at that moment she was angry, and your question "why are you so aggressive towards me" is meaningless
Until you came for months, you did not notice how other men courted her, and her soul refused.
When you did not congratulate her on her birthday (on purpose), another man congratulated her, and until the last she was waiting for your attention.
When you said that you love, appreciate and respect, coming only when it is convenient for you, you did not notice that her soul more and more did not believe your words.
When you didn’t keep your promises, you didn’t notice that she ceased to respect you.
While you were pretending to be a peasant, tough as flint, you didn’t notice that it was not in this that she saw your strength, and that was not what she needed.
As long as she loved you as best she could, you spat this love, but did not notice how she became your drug and began to cause withdrawal when she stopped loving you so.
And you will forever remember how good you were with her, you will look for a replacement for her in one, in another, but you will not find. You will be drawn to her as a drug and withdrawal will sometimes be unbearable, you will not stand it and want to return - but by that time she will decide that the past in which she was unhappy is no longer her drug.
You did not notice anything … neither how they loved you, nor how often you were forgiven for something for which you should no longer even talk to you, nor that you see yourself and discuss something, you did not notice how often you were understood, forgetting about your own interests. You haven't noticed anything. You just played out for the failed previous love and did not understand that love is not defending your I, it is taking into account each other's I and sometimes sacrificing yours for the other.
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