2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
LIFE EXPERIENCE OF A PSYCHOLOGIST. The life experience of a psychologist is just as important as his education. Attempts to find a psychologist without trauma and problems, just like finding a crystal-developed psychologist is a harmful myth. A specialist who has not lived in his own skin these or those life situations will be very far from his client. I'm not saying that the problems in the psychologist's experience and the problems in the client's experience should be symmetrical. Not at all. But to understand something based solely on theory is not really something that will help in practice. But this does not happen. We do not have people in our social world who have passed these or those problems. There are, however, those who do not recognize the impact of injuries and problems on themselves, trying to look like such staunch tin soldiers. But here is the question about their own psychotherapy. And if they deny their involvement in normal human life so much and do not go to psychotherapy and supervision, then this is a very alarming bell. It would be nice to bypass these. But this is a separate complex topic. I am now talking about those who, by their own experience, have lived and worked in psychotherapy for all sorts of difficult moments. This not only helped them improve their own lives, but also enrich their experience of dealing with the problem itself. Social competence is a very important resource for working with clients. Why am I talking about the benefits of non-symmetrical trauma with the client, because in this case there will be less space for transfer. Traceable transference and countertransference are good tools at work for the specialist, though. I have not met crystal-developed people on my way. And for me it is rather good. I really want to stay alive myself and see living people in front of me, rather than crystallize into some kind of idol for worship. And for some reason, I see in the image of such an overworked psychologist a certain guru, cut off from worldly concerns and from everyday life. Of course, these are just my fantasies. But, here, I get such an ironic image. It is also important to talk about the state in which the psychologist is and in which he goes to work. What about strong joy or great grief in his life? Will they not affect the quality of his work. I think this is an important point of awareness. If the specialist is able to give himself an account of the strength of the experienced emotions and how much they can / cannot affect his contact with the client and in what direction they can influence, then everything is fine. And the normal living process of communication, when a psychologist lives his life and thereby demonstrates, gives non-verbal permission to live life to his client - in my opinion, this is one of the most valuable moments of psychological work.
YOU WILL TEACH HOW TO BE HAPPY.
Run girl further, don't turn around, don't you dare feel yourself. Get better and better, achieve new goals and even if they are not even yours, but you need to correspond. Do not dare to worry, grieve and experience feelings, improve yourself and you will be happy. And it doesn't matter that this happiness is not about you at all, but from trauma, from resentment and from pain. The main thing is not to think about yourself, run on, hurry up, don't look back. Run to the courses of the best wives in the world, become a goddess, reveal your femininity, adapt, drive away thoughts of yourself and your freedom. Improve, achieve, set new goals. You will be taught to be happy. And it doesn't matter that they don't explain, that happiness is not equal to pleasure, that happiness is sometimes an imposed stereotype. It is difficult to think about it and it is difficult to work with it. It's easier to take another course and get euphoria for a few days. And the depth it does not tolerate speed and rush. Depth is not about someone there, it is about you. And on this path you will need to meet yourself. Pick yourself up piece by piece. To live not lived, and it is sometimes very painful. In the course of work, your ideas and your priorities may change. And then it is not yet known how your loved ones will react to you new. New to them, but so forgotten to you. Because you will not run forward, you will return to yourself.
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