2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
No matter how many representatives of the intelligentsia, progressive cultural figures and beloved masters of self-development express the need to remain calm, panic is a generalizing thing. In the curvy Soviet corridors of our apartments, we observe the reflections of objects and the outlines of faces that should not and cannot be there. Rationalizations are never enough for a frightened person.
Fear is instinctive in nature. No matter how much reason you impute that it is irrational to be afraid, instinct prompts you to huddle harder against the wall.
Today, thank God, we realized that panic cannot be cured by panic. People head to the park. Meditate. The national home improvement retailer saw a three-fold increase in its fitness accessories sales; twice - for creativity. We finally choose to do important, psycho-strengthening things. Things that unite us with our gut and awaken the eternal in us.
And now, as soon as we rise a little above the dead wood of routine, in the very middle of our being, the initial fear begins to ignite neatly: is there a danger?
In an effort to protect ourselves from encroachments on our fostered space of tranquility, covered with yoga mats, now we are again on the alert: looking out for potential violators of the inner sanctuary.
Such is he - the fear of someone else's negativity. It acts abruptly: it closes the door of our heart, sends the soul into quarantine. And now we return to the starting point: the soul languishes in deaf solitude! There is no place for the reality of loved ones in her palaces. As soon as a loved one and loved one express concern, we immediately shake our heads, as if shaking ourselves off, and proudly suppress: well, why are you, they say, spreading panic. A conscious person does not need to panic.
Choosing to act in this way, in an attempt to protect ourselves from "negative contamination", we emotionally isolate ourselves from each other. Social isolation turns into emotional isolation.
Contrary to what the news calls common sense, the stage of emotional isolation is necessary and important for humanity. Only languishing in the four walls of Khrushchev, overgrown with cats, spouses and children, aggravated by worry about fate, one day, at dawn, will we choose to sit down at the kitchen table and sit our soul in front of us. And we look into our eyes, wondering why it turns out that external isolation highlights all our rejected feelings: anger, print, grief and envy. The soul begs for a chance; and dumping our sensual load on the kitchen tile, we finally gain access to long-forgotten infant sorrows: a taken away pacifier, a broken toy and a birthday present that was not meant for me.
The living of all emotions, the willingness to say goodbye to every feeling with an open chest, like in the rain, has an ennobling effect on the human psyche.
Man is a conductor of energy. And somewhere in the center, in the region of the heart, there is a transformer - it converts energy into pure light. The system works on sincerity: only on condition that a true, unconstrained, undisguised, naked emotion gets inside, the system is able to transform its energy into great, light, eternal.
Forward for the light - for the eternal!
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