2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
We have heard the saying that a speck in someone else's eye is more visible than a log in oneself. So why do we look at other people's specks of dust, and sometimes turn them into whole decks, discuss from different angles and cannot leave alone? 🤔
Let's return to character X. And so, our hero in childhood was punished for any initiative, passing it off as disobedience. And in return, the parents themselves could do those things with the child, for which he was punished.
Here we have an adult who does not understand how he should be and is constantly waiting for an attack on his manifestations.
But we remember, our desires are the guarantee of our life, where can we go without them. So our X is looking for such an asshole, who teaches himself to do everything for which he was punished. Of course, he condemns this person for his eyes, sincerely wants to correct him, but he never leaves him and sometimes even pisses on all sorts of things.
In this way, we see a victim who complains about the grief of a friend, but at the same time is a hero who will never leave the poor fellow. And this poor fellow is precisely the support in the life of our hero, who insists on showing himself without fear and guilt.
In therapy with clients like X, it can be very difficult, because for them permission to express themselves is associated with pain, shame and guilt. However, a person gets a chance to find himself, to show his personality to the world with courage.
With love for your ailments Tatyana Pavlenko
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