2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Sometimes there are doubts about the advisability of experiencing some emotions, sharing them with another person. Sometimes there are doubts about the advisability of some actions.
It should be noted that this can be both in real life and in therapy when working with a psychologist.
How do we stop ourselves? Any thoughts, more often than not. And the emotions that follow these thoughts.
It seems to us that nothing new will happen, that we all know in advance, we foresee everything and nothing in these fantasies of ours can please and cheer us, motivate us.
In fact, and this has been repeatedly tested in practice, and not only by me, far from everything, if not practically everything, does not lend itself to such speculative cognition. And this is the key idea of this article.
When we manage to sincerely live something, when we manage to do something new, which was not easy to do, then, after this, completely new facets of being open up, which we could not even imagine, new experience, new feelings arise, ideas, thoughts, new mood, new relationships with oneself and people. In general, something is changing in life. In life, there is a feeling of this very life, movement, new horizons are opening.
Yes, it can be difficult to get started. And to live the way we live, in some cases, is it really that simple? Comfortable, familiar? Yes. But somewhere in the depths of the soul, or even not at all in the depths, there is a feeling that something could be different, different. Can this really be called "simple"? This is about some kind of self-deception, which can hardly sincerely please and inspire.
So why wait? Why postpone? It's time to let something new into your life right now. It's time! May there be more time for the new! There is no need to reduce its time frame, postponing everything and putting off important things for later. After all, then, you can turn back and regret the wasted years. It’s good if it’s not a deep old age … But nevertheless, it’s better not to delay, as it seems to me) What do you think? Or will we wait for now?
As always, I look forward to your responses in the comments!
I apologize for not reacting right away, not on the same day. As soon as I have a free minute, I try to answer everything at once.
Thank you for your attention! And see you soon!
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