2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
So, in fact, 31 conclusions by the year 31:
1. Everything that I dreamed of at 20 ceased to please me at 30. Values have changed, goals have changed.
2. You don't even have to lift a finger in order to earn someone's love. A person's love does not depend on our efforts.
3. Emptiness and depression do not go away by themselves, you should not delay with them.
4. There are things that I cannot change, circumstances that I cannot correct. You will have to learn to live with them.
5. Life is not fair. You need to accept this reality and be able to act in it.
6. Nobody is interested in your development and well-being, except yourself.
7. Well-being can be trained.
8. The meaning of life is always different.
9. Nothing will work out by itself. Do not bear it! If you feel that the situation is not favorable, you should not expect a miracle. Change it!
10. Money can be made.
11. It is worth giving all your best only if you clearly know why you need it or working for yourself. Otherwise, you can get burned out.
12. Talent is not everything. Persistent and persistent people achieve success.
13. Take it and do it!
14. Do you suppose? Check it out! (framing - reframing).
15. Invest your energy in development and learning. Nobody can take that away from you. It will always help in difficult times.
16. Do you want to be someone? Don't ask permission, be it!
17. Love is not all that is needed for happiness. When there is the most important thing, you want something secondary.
18. Don't wait for tomorrow. Try it today!
19. Only 2 things can truly change a person: true love and true psychotherapy.
20. "The work of life" is born from trial, experience, interest, meetings, partings, and not given from above.
21. Met the Buddha? Kill Buddha! Authorities are the same people as you are. Be yourself, appreciate yourself.
22. We change ourselves mainly for one of two reasons - inspiration or despair.
23. Life will not lead by itself on the right path. If nothing is done, it will simply end.
24. Take special care of your desires. It is the most important fuel for accomplishment and change.
25. Develop your sensitivity, trust your feelings. This will help you deal with uncertainty.
26. By and large, no one cares about you. Be on your side, be yourself and realize your goals.
27. Look for people and do things that inspire you. Communicate with them. Deal with them.
28. Working only for the sake of money can turn into hard labor of a lifetime.
29. Check the truth of your goals by the criterion of "burning eyes".
30. Seek help if you can't manage it yourself. Look for a way out, do not sit in a dead end!
31. People are ungrateful. Before you donate something, figure out why you need it.
I want to end this article with the words of my beloved Somerset Maugham:
“The most valuable thing that life has taught me is not to regret anything. Life is short, nature is hostile, man is ridiculous; but, oddly enough, most of our misfortunes are compensated for by something, and with a certain sense of humor and common sense, we can cope well with the fact that in the end does not really matter”…..))) …….” Small corner"
I invite you to the discussion, I will be glad for your additions, your conclusions and comments!)
