2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Stop for a minute, look around…. I mean, look around globally, look at your life from above, and think how YOU ended up today in these circumstances, conditions and situations?
Why do you now have what you have, and there are certain emotional reactions taking place within you about this?
The answer is very simple and short: BECAUSE YOU DESERVE IT.
And here there is no one to present a claim, except for himself. You have that partner, that job, those children, that health and the amount of money that you deserve. The protest rises in your chest?:) So you are sitting in your own truth. Until you leave it and look at yourself from the outside, then life will not change for the better (or / and desired) side.
EVERYTHING IS GIVEN BY PERSONAL DIGNITY
What is this abstract concept and how to measure it? - you ask.
Let's just say that dignity is a gradation of a state of inner maturity, wisdom (this also includes comprehension of the laws of the Universe), and inner purity. The measure of dignity is not determined by the person himself. Therefore, be indignant: I am worthy, why wasn’t they given me? Or trying to take, thinking that you are worthy - a useless exercise. It's like buying a car on credit and then crashing it after a while. There is a loan, but no car.
We all came into the world to change and develop. If a person stops developing, then the Universe is taken to the margins to live out his life and degrades. An indicator of our development is the response from the world around us: the society in which we find ourselves, the formation of certain circumstances and situations that directly or indirectly indicate to us the state of affairs in our life, and so on.
EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD IS IN A FINE INTERCONNECTION OF THE “BALANCE”
The so-called balance here is a rather illusory concept and works on the principle of scales: one bowl is inside you, the other is outside. What and how much they have placed inside themselves will respond with certain changes and in a certain amount in the external world (according to the law of systemology). For example, a person in the prenatal period received a trauma when his mother wanted to have an abortion, then in his childhood unconscious claims to his father or mother were added to him, in his youth he experienced unrequited love, which also left in him a certain kind of emotion. Not everything is smooth inside him, he will get the same thing in life: an unconscious rejection of life as a whole, isolation from the earthly plane, in his partner he will gain what he did not work with his parents, and so on.
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Have you heard the theory about the holographic nature of the world? Many scientists adhere to this theory. In short, it can be voiced by the more ancient wise words “that which is above is the same below” (Hermes Trismegistus).
Therefore, whether you like it or not, you have to admit the fact that if you want to change the world around you, then you need to start with yourself. It is useless to drink pills, change partners, work, be angry with children, resent the lack of money, and so on.
To begin with, you should accept the circumstances in which you find yourself - they show your level of development and are the starting point in order to outline how, where and how to move to achieve what you want. Sincere gratitude for what you have is also an indicator of your worthiness (read: wisdom and inner purity) and it should be if you want to move higher.
Working on yourself in all areas of life, you will receive a response from the world. We did the job - we got the result. The result obtained will be directly proportional to the effort you put into it. And here it is, the measure of Dignity. It is likely that you will feel that you have done a great job and received little…. not at all. The measure is not determined by man. Not satisfied with the result? It means that somewhere you gave up the slack, maybe a lack of knowledge influenced and you did not complete the work.
As you move towards a better life, through knowledge and work on yourself, you will develop sensitivity and will be able to feel and understand what you really need, your true desires and capabilities, and what needs to be done to get it (we are talking about both material and about the intangible components of the world). And you can also understand what you deserve, what you still need to work on in order to become worthy and get what you want, and what the Universe was guided by when it measured out this or that benefit as a gift.
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