Ignorance. Die Slowly Dear

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

When a woman is in a toxic relationship with a man, she may not always notice that she is being subjected to psychological abuse daily and hourly. When a partner hits a woman, insults - these are direct actions that are clearly visible in a relationship.

But violence is also latent. One of the types of hidden psychological violence is called neglect. Later we will talk about examples of such violence and how it can manifest itself in relationships.

Violence against a person is a poisonous thing, but, as you know, our body can partially absorb and digest poisons and toxins. Moreover, over time, he can adapt to destructive relationships, which, although they have consequences for the body and the whole person as a whole, nevertheless develop a tolerance for pain and suffering. The body begins to rebuild itself under the consequences of violence. So, a woman may stop or lose her menstrual cycle, she may gain weight, or, conversely, begin to suffer from anorexia or bulimia.

Against the background of this "adaptation", various diseases can also develop, such as cancer (a feeling of guilt imposed by a partner), asthma (a person "suffocates" in a relationship, but cannot leave because he does not have enough resources to do it), flu and ARVI (psychological violence undermines the immune system), panic attacks and vds (pressure begins to increase upon contact with this person, without him - dizzy up to fainting), aggravated obsessive-compulsive disorders, depression, chronic diseases.

This is what a toxic person needs. He feels pleasure at the sight of illness, suffering of a partner. And even more. He manipulates his partner in order to gain complete power over him and total control even over the thoughts of the partner. In order to gain this control, the partner must be made helpless, powerless, literally sick.

Ignorance is a type of psychological abuse in which the victim is harassed in various ways, slowly, and even to the point of death. The tyrant himself does not consider his partner a person, but is more inclined to think about the set of functions that he may have. These functions may include: household, sexual, emotional, material.

Male non-lector:

- will specifically look for diseases from the partner, and try to "cure" them. But the consequences can be irreversible;

- or, conversely, to deny medical care, considering it "unnecessary";

- can deprive a woman of food, but not take it directly, but make the victim refuse to eat or she has no choice, for example: "how can you eat such nasty stuff?", "I did not know that you were hungry", “It's expensive” (for simple products);

- or maybe, on the contrary, feed your victim;

- to convince the victim that he wants children from her, but after the accomplished sexual intercourse to demand to drink a pill, which has consequences for the woman's body;

- or vice versa, knowing that she is childfree, insist on having children;

- can hypothermic a woman, leaving her in the car without heating for several hours, or forcing her to wear short skirts in the cold and walk along the street, knowing that she may have exacerbated inflammation of the appendages;

- shows indifference to the illnesses of his chosen one, may not come home while she is sick, not provide assistance and even scoff at her illnesses;

- Forces a woman to undergo plastic surgery;

- socially isolates a woman, makes her move to another city, country, deprives her of the opportunity to communicate with friends, parents;

- deprives the victim of normal sleep;

- manipulates his power: “do you need money for examination? If you behave well, then we'll see”;

- ignores temporary bans on sex. For example, when there is a contraindication to sexual intercourse after various operations or childbirth;

- threaten the health of the victim's life.

The victim, being under the strong influence of the tyrant, cannot always regard this moral and physical violence. After all, she does not have the strength at this stage of the relationship to objectively assess reality and understand what is happening to her. She lost herself in a relationship, dissolved in a partner, became his narcissistic expansionrather than an individual. But here it is important to remember that there is a way out, despite the dire consequences. This is the path to yourself, the restoration of your self-esteem, self-confidence, a careful and attentive attitude to your needs and values, and a conscious choice of a partner in the future!