20 Reasons To Stop Saving Your Mom And Start Living By Your Own Rules

20 Reasons To Stop Saving Your Mom And Start Living By Your Own Rules
20 Reasons To Stop Saving Your Mom And Start Living By Your Own Rules
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  1. You will begin to live only your life. Not to my mother or someone else from the ancestral system, but to live according to your own scenario
  2. You will know exactly what you want, not mom or dad or society
  3. You will know exactly your movement in life, where, why and why, for what, how and what in the end. Live clearly, not in fog
  4. You will finally begin to live for YOURSELF, and not for others, which means that your life will be filled with meaning and content of which you have been lacking for so long. This is the very meaning of life that many are looking for, and you will find it
  5. You will connect with your uniqueness and value, because you will become interesting to yourself
  6. Increase your influence in your own life by making decisions and choices for yourself without guilt, shame, or regret. You will clearly know your boundaries and will not allow anyone to violate them
  7. You will begin to follow your tasks and interests, thereby ceasing to betray yourself and push yourself into a far corner
  8. Your growing up and personal growth will begin, an amazing journey to yourself
  9. The long-awaited separation with mom will happen. A way out of infantility and childishness, what our soul aspires to
  10. Parents and their fate, something that did not come true and did not happen, that torments them, will no longer have a destructive effect on you
  11. You will come to terms with yourself and your past, regardless of the losses and failures that happened in your life before.
  12. You will become self-reliant and able to give yourself as much love and attention as you see fit. The feeling of need and dependence is transformed into strength and inspiration. And internally loneliness, which is inevitable when a person goes out on his way, will become a resource and a source of energy for you
  13. You will rebuild your relationship with your mom from codependent and toxic to calm, and possibly even respectful.
  14. You transform shame and guilt into self-esteem and pride in yourself
  15. You will stop living for your mother and bear her pain, because you will finally begin to do something for yourself. And most importantly, believe that without you, mom is doing a great job with her life.
  16. A new understanding of your past and future will come to you, who you are and what you are for
  17. There will be more joy and happiness in your life, because you will become independent of the opinions and assessments of others.
  18. Courage and courage will come into your life for meeting and parting. After all, you will stop taking parting as a collapse or a terrible loss, because you will always be on your own.
  19. You will rebuild relationships with men or women because you will stop looking for "mommy" in them. And the pair field will be a source of support for you to grow and move forward.
  20. You will finally risk declaring yourself to the world, because your own rules always imply a personal independent position, and not imitation or copying.

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