People Under The Sign Of Illusion

People Under The Sign Of Illusion
People Under The Sign Of Illusion
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There are people who adequately assess reality and make the best decision with the help of the "head": an emotionless assessment of facts, analysis, logic. There are people who rely on intuition, feelings, inner impulses, and on the basis of this make the best decisions for them. There are those who know how to connect both the "head" and the "chuyka" and make a decision holistically. And there are those who are let down by both the head and the senses - "people under the sign of illusions."

For them, white looks like black, red looks like blue. Where it is safe, they see enemies. And in case of real danger, they do not notice the threat and get into trouble. They believe when they lie, but they try to catch honest people in deception. Someone who truly loves is considered a monster or nothing. And the peak of love and tenderness is considered the one who is cold to them. Sometimes they ask themselves questions. "What is true and what is false, what to believe and what not, what to trust in yourself - thoughts or feelings, who to trust - yourself or others?"

Out of the blue, a woman can "feel" that her husband is cheating on her, and pull up a thousand facts under this, justify it so that she does not find fault. But in reality, these are only illusions - the husband does not change even in his thoughts. And vice versa, in the case of obvious betrayal, she may not feel anxiety and not notice what is happening, even logically forming facts for her will add up to some other picture.

A woman may be overwhelmed by feelings and thoughts that something bad has happened to her child / husband, although in reality everything is in order. But in case of real trouble, she will not notice it.

The trigger can be both sudden strong feelings (anxiety, fear, a sense of betrayal, impending disaster), under which seemingly irrefutable evidence at the level of facts and logic is collected, and, conversely, a suddenly assembled puzzle of facts, screaming about a catastrophe, triggers a strong emotional response. But in reality, facts are collected in a distorted picture, and feelings have nothing to do with objective reality.

However, if the matter does not concern them personally or someone from a close circle, these people can be good conductors of information. Through Tarot, shamanic travel and other practices (for strangers, but not for yourself and loved ones). Or just subtly feel and "read" people when there is no personal interest in it.

These people can be found both the strong influence of Neptune in astro, and the Broken Moon in the Mission Ray, and fascinating karmic adventures, the purpose of which was to learn to distinguish true light from false, and much more.

But in the sense of ordinary earthly life, these are people with high sensitivity and a strong connection with the unconscious, who have experienced a strong distortion of their perception of themselves and the world. And also there were some acute, still not lived, experiences (rejection, humiliation, betrayal, devaluation, threat to life, etc.). Possible causes of distortion:

  • Physical, emotional or sexual abuse and humiliation from loved ones. When it is difficult for a child to cope with the fact that “my dad, whom I love so much, is beating me now,” “my mother, whom I love so much, is now mocking me as a sadist”, he turns reality … "They don't beat me, they love me." "It is not they who are doing me bad now, it is me who is bad." At that moment, it is a way to defend and survive.
  • Inconsistent messages and inconsistent actions by parents. Dad is kind, then aggressive, mom is loving, then cold. Parents say that you cannot cheat, but the child sees that they themselves are lying, or they force the child to talk on the phone that they are not at home when they themselves want to hide from someone. They say that you can not offend the little ones, but they offend him (the little one). They say "come here" and immediately push away "leave me alone." For one and the same fact, one or another interpretation is proposed. Etc. etc. It becomes unclear to the child which "truth" to believe.
  • Parents did not perceive the child as he was, "pulled" a different image on him, decided for him what he should be, in a child of one sex they tried to "find" a child of the other sex for themselves. “You cannot be hungry, you recently ate”, “You cannot be cold, it’s hot here”, “You cannot love it”, “What kind of stupid dreams?”, “You are the same as me” (also love potatoes, you will also become a doctor), "It doesn't hurt at all" (at the dentist), "You are a good girl, and good girls do not get angry", etc. To survive, the child agrees to squeeze into someone else's image and merge with him.

Out of love for his parents and in an attempt to survive, the child abandons his truth, his support and his core and, ultimately, abandons himself … He ceases to distinguish between his true feelings and thoughts. Takes formed distortions as the basis of the world. And unlived traumatic experiences, intertwining with these distortions, break through with fountains of illusion.

In the process of therapeutic work, you can gradually free yourself from distortions, return your clear vision of your truth, return faith in yourself, your support and your core, and, most importantly, return yourself … Then you can take a lesson in distinguishing between true and false light, split the Beam of the Broken Moon into a Papess with her clear vision of the essence, and under the auspices of Neptune, not drown in illusions, but see the truth behind a veil of secrecy.

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