2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The psychologist is not Mukhtar, however, in unraveling the tangle of problems, sooner or later he will run into not just a woman, but a mother!
So why wander in the dark for a long time when you can start by asking about your mom?
Even, forcing his way through the resistance of the person himself.
After all, no matter what a client turns to us, it makes sense to clarify what kind of relationship he or she has with his mother precisely because this relationship is most often the very focus of defeat.
And what's mom here, if I want to talk
- About the fact that men are leaving me?
- That I have no friends?
- That I can't find a job to my liking?
- That I don't earn much?
- That I am constantly sick?
I assure you, all of the above is about her, about mom
because
- When men leave a woman all the time, most likely the same scenario is repeated, when the girl was crying all the time for her mother leaving somewhere. And it didn't matter if my mother went to a man or to work!
- When a person does not have friends, it is probably also not without mother's involvement. There are two possible options here - either the mother forbade the child to hang out with bad children, or vice versa, often used the neighbor Masha or Katya as an example.
- It is hard to find a business to their liking for those whom mother strongly controlled or continues to control until now. When my mother devalued all independent decisions, because she knows better. what to do and what not. And even if a person thinks that he can do everything on his own.. In his heart he doubts: "Probably, it makes no sense to go to psychologists / artists / artists, it's better to work in accounting all my life"
- Many people fail to break through their financial ceiling if their mother often said: “Money is not happiness,” “You cannot earn all the money,“We didn’t live richly, and we won’t start.”It is clear that it is very difficult to overcome such parental messages, but that's it. you can!
- From childhood, mothers often instilled in the child that he was in poor health and therefore should not strive for anything. Another option is when, out of loyalty (systemic love) to the mother, a person adopts her tendency to high blood pressure, diabetes, excess weight or other health problems. This happens because an adult person expresses his love differently. traumatized by a mother as a child simply cannot.
