2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
We knew it, and then we forgot. We knew when we learned to walk, talk, hold a spoon … We fell, hurt ourselves, cried, then got up again, took the first step … Yes, sometimes we got down on all fours again, but the further, the more exciting and tempting life seemed to us on two legs. And when the laces were tied, the buttons were fastened: it did not work, we even freaked out, but again and again we tried to do it only ourselves
Then we grew up.
And now, if something does not work out from the start, we would rather think that
- this is not our business, - it is better to quit earlier than wasting time, - it's better to do something easier, but more reliable and practical, - something that I know very well
- and what we are sure of …
And so on, and so on … Further from your goal, from your dreams, from the moments that take your breath away …
But when we were little and not the first time learned to do colossal things - to walk, run, jump, speak, read, count, distinguish colors - we did not even suspect that we would achieve this through many failures. Yes, we did not know a word like that then. It was later, when we became adults, that we suddenly mistakenly decided that failure poisons our lives. And we begin to avoid it in every possible way, bypass the tenth road.
God forbid, make a mistake! Or do it wrong. Or to make people laugh with their attempts.
So that's it.
Failure is not our mistakes, failures and failures.
How many times will a girl fall before becoming the world champion in figure skating?
How many times will a piece of clay in the hands of a potter be a shapeless lump before it turns into a work of art?
How many times do you need to break your brains and language before speaking a foreign language fluently and beautifully?
Myriad. Failures are endless.
Why, why do most of us give up our ascent, never having experienced the joy at the top of our Mont Blanc?
Failure is what we do.
We always do what we know. We never experiment with something new or change anything.
We do things that we know for sure will be good for us. We do not develop our other talents and interests.
We do not even try to do something that can destroy or nullify our ideas about anything. We are constantly within our limiting beliefs.
We only do what we can be experts at. We do not ask for help from others and do not enjoy learning.
When we fail to do something in the usual way, we consider ourselves incompetent and give up this business. We don't give ourselves the chance to learn new things and move towards greater success.
And success is the ability to change for the better and change the world around you. But we are so afraid of being branded as failures that we exclude any possibility of changing even our personal space.
But if you risk it? To make sure that failure helps us to win from our own experience, and not from hearsay.
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