2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Surely, many in their psychological practice faced cases of a kind of persecution from the client after the end of therapy. This can be expressed in the desire of the person to maintain contact with you in any form, without asking for further advice.
Moreover, it is quite natural, for example, to answer a former client one-time to a question related to the topic of therapy in a personal message. Or, see his comments and likes to your posts on social networks, to publications on psychological sites.
Another thing is the nature of this interaction in terms of the frequency of references, in terms of the direction of comments. If the client still needs to clarify something with you, and he does not feel like "ex" - well, welcome to continue therapy.
Here you can discuss the transfer, if it takes place, or find out other, new problems that a person seems to be trying to get through with such continuous communication with you on public Internet sites or in instant messengers.
If the former client stubbornly does not want to transfer his activity into the framework of therapy, this is a reason to think about it, and at a certain stage to make a decision to completely stop communication, and even block the obsessive counterpart in order to stop the persecution once and for all.
At the end of the therapeutic process, you do not have to explain anything, much less explain. To which you can clearly be provoked by such ambiguous, with under-inversion comments, or sudden unexpected messages and calls.
This is a difficult topic, especially now, when the activities of psychologists are largely transferred to the Internet space. Pages and accounts have open access, Whatsapp, Viber, Skype and Zoom are also available for potential customers, which can again become the former.
She even wrote about the client "former", and this led to a certain association … For a psychologist, no provocations to unproductive spontaneous communication cancels the observance of professional ethics. A true professional will never translate a therapeutic communication into a personal story. This should be well understood by clients - both former and current.
Have you had similar cases of compulsive communication after the end of therapy?
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