2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Many people say that they are definitely determined to change their life and do everything possible to turn it on a successful track. Especially such a rise is observed in many after successful personal growth trainings.
On this positive wave, a person analyzes the path traveled, realizes that much should be done differently than before. He decides to set real goals for himself and … But on this, many stop in confusion, asking the question “What do I want to achieve? What are the most important and real goals for me?"
At this moment, a stop may occur, which will stretch until the next training, or even be converted into a conclusion that let everything remain as it is.
Just at this stage of uncertainty, there will be a clue on how to approach goal setting. It is quite possible that the confusion came due to the fact that a person simply does not know which side of his life to devote attention to in the first place. Or, on the contrary, he is ready to rush in one direction and is worried, but what about everything else.
In such cases, you can use one of the approaches to goal setting. In philosophical terminology, one of them can be represented as “from the particular to the general”, and the second “from the general to the particular”.
Psychological practice calls the first approach focusing on the goal, and the second - the harmonization of goals. Both approaches crystallize those goals to which the person is ready to start, and push for further actions - which is their special value. But, everyone is free to take the approach that is closer to him.
CONCENTRATION ON GOAL
A concentration-based strategy is more convenient to use when you have a priority area in which you want to move. You see that guiding star-goal to which you strive, break it down into current sub-goals, designate the timing of their achievement and mobilize yourself for active actions.
So that other important components of your life do not get stuck, they need to be tightened. To do this, perform the following analysis at least once a month.
Write down the important directions in your life. It is permissible to determine their number at your discretion, the main thing is that professional activity (or study) and personal life, financial well-being and personal achievements, health, rest and communication are covered. Some of these areas, as already noted, are a priority for you, and you will devote most of your time to it. For all other areas, list the tasks that you will complete this month. But not only formulate and write them down, but mark the deadlines and really do it.
You will solve some of these tasks in passing within a month, for others you will find time, perhaps with some annoyance, but they will not require your undue attention. But none of your vital areas will remain forgotten and will not fall on your head with sudden problems.
In fact, you will ensure an almost continuous adherence to your main goal and pinpoint attention to all other aspects of your life.
HARMONIZING GOAL
If your soul is striving for success, but you still do not know how to realize yourself, start by analyzing all areas of your own life. Again, we are talking about health and work, about study and personal life, about material security and communication, about rest and hobbies - about everything without which a person cannot exist. Think over and write down goals for each of the areas listed and important to you. Analyze which of these goals could lead to the improvement of several other aspects of your life. Focus your efforts on this goal and check in the process if there are positive changes in your whole life. When the goal is achieved, again consider the whole life balance, determine the next one and ensure its achievement step by step.
This article outlines approaches to help you prioritize your choice. This is followed by the very process of achieving the goal. You are well aware that this is usually a sequential work, consisting of a number of steps. Purposeful people know how to build their own step-by-step technology leading to achievements.
For those who still find it difficult to identify and implement each individual step closer to the goal, there are excellent practical guides that arm with technology and help to develop their own style of successful promotion over time.
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