2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
There are many things people are afraid of, but there is such an unusual fear that is not always visible at first glance, but almost every person has it. This fear is formed over the years: first in kindergarten, then at school, and then it becomes a habit. So - this is the fear of being different, the fear of uniqueness.
But mother nature tried and created us all different from appearance to abilities. At what point did people decide that they need to be ashamed of their individuality and start comparing? There is usually no end point in this comparison.
And how "cute" it begins: "And what a good boy / girl you have at school, the whole meeting told us about him, and you are with me … Here, you are my woe, from whom you need to take an example!" And Petya, Masha lives for himself and thinks that she is unremarkable, well, she does not know how to behave so beautifully and, apparently, as a man so-so, they do not praise right and left.
And what if educators, teachers, parents stopped comparing the child, and themselves at the same time with some mythical ideal, and honestly accepted the dissimilarity in themselves and others. Who needs these copies, think? I understand a person is a social being, suddenly you will not be accepted in your dissimilarity, it’s scary to be a "black sheep".
But what if we are all white crows, each in his own way and each with his own unique strength? What then? In my opinion, then develop and show your uniqueness, it's so natural! Not pumping yourself all your life, it becomes very important to be ready for any rudeness, so that the other is even afraid to say a word in your address, and not something that is not in favor of comparing.
The best defense is not bombast, but belief in yourself, in your personal value, no matter what they say. And they will speak and speak until they come to their uniqueness, or maybe they never come, but this is another story, full of sadness, where you cannot be yourself.
And in the subject line of Anatoly Rabin, it is about the attitude, where there is so much gloating about dissimilarity.
Our tradition is accustomed to live in a flock, white with ambition … and generally different:
all the crows croak, all the crows are a bunch,
but she keeps her mouth shut and looks like a badass, and sits far away, croaking not in unison …
Even eating carrion seems to her a shame.
You open our soul to her as a bird, and this little bird has everything "purely personal" …
All rights are shaking! Literate helluva lot!
It seems to agree, but there is a smile in the eyes, preoccupied with something, s-praa-sewing, s-praa-sewing, as if he wants something … but, alas, not ours …
Teaches extraneous songs alien to us, and does not sing his crows - even burst!
And as the beak opens, it shocks everyone around -
"Carr" does not pronounce and slightly grasses …
Who are her parents ?! Ish you, walks like a gogol …
Mother once saw something with a house pigeon, then the slut got confused with the overseas swan …
- That's why the white one! There is no council on them.
Every now and then our flock dear! …
Enough, tired! In-karr-rat useless! -
And the crow is poor, modest, timid, only noticeable because she was born white, so quietly dozing under the shady crown
and did not understand: - "What are you talking about, crows?"
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