2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Yesterday my friend and I talked about hobbies and interests.
The Internet offers us various courses, seminars, trainings and master classes on vocation, destiny, "knowing yourself", etc. Job interviews ask about hobbies and interests. The question of a hobby also sounds when meeting the opposite sex.
But what if a person has no clearly expressed interests? It is difficult for him to answer the question about a hobby, since he is not particularly interested in anything. Should every person have a passion, hobby, vocation, understand their purpose?
The world opens up many opportunities for us to do something. At any age, we can realize our dream of being a ballerina, paint a picture, sing our song - everyone has their own list on this topic. What if I don't want to? Why is the lack of activity in terms of interests and hobbies uncomfortable? There are people who ask themselves a question about the future, hobby, interests, and the inability to answer it causes anxiety and discontent.
Today I have no special hobbies and interests. When people ask me what I am interested in in life, I answer that life itself.
· At school I studied singing and playing the piano. I was also part of the folk dance group.
· I really dreamed of being able to draw, but I don't have such an ability. I attended lessons and drew with an artist. It was difficult for me. I abandoned this idea and now the maximum I decide on is to paint a picture according to the numbers of paints, coloring for adults.
· At the university and after it, I was engaged in pair dances and singles.
· I went to fencing.
And it's all. The list of my hobbies is exhausted. Moreover, everything that is connected with manual work is quite difficult for me, I even came up with such a saying about myself “measure seven times and cut seven times”. My arms are growing out of the right place, there is simply no ability for a certain type of activity. At the same time, I have enough imagination to correct what I cut off seven times.
I read books, travel, communicate with friends, watch movies, go to theaters, go to concerts. I enjoy visiting museums and art exhibitions, though I am selective in contemporary art. At the same time, you can't say for sure about me that I am a theatergoer, or a moviegoer, or a great traveler, or a reader of 10-20 books per month. These are all periods and opportunities. The circumstances were such that an exhibition of paintings by Aivazovsky was held in one of the museums in Kiev, it became interesting, there was a company and time, I went. They show in cinemas a film that aroused my interest, I watched. And so with everything else. There is no tendency to deep knowledge of one thing.
Ask yourself the question: What is a hobby, passion, interest? Why do you personally need it?
Many are now addicted to something. However, does everyone need it? Why are they doing this? In some cases, this is a tribute to fashion. In fact, a person does not get the kind of inner emotional state that those whose hobby is a kind of passion get. We shouldn't use hobbies to fill the void. They complement our life, not fill it. If there is no clearly expressed interest, then you should not look for it. It's like talent or ability, either there or not. Therefore, do not be discouraged if you are not passionate about something, perhaps you do not need it.
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