2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
When I was recording the Course to a New Life, I was asked about unrealized potentials - how much does a person NOT use them?
And let's see where, due to what psychological failures there is a leakage of our power, which a person could spend on his well-being:
1. We lose our strength when we plague ourselves with guilt. Which squeezes out all the juices. And does not allow to see reality (blinks and immerses in itself). We fix this error in the module "How to fix and develop your responsibility".
2. A huge amount of time and effort is spent when we want one thing and do another, often diametrically opposite. Simply because of a misunderstanding of the process (elementary because of ignorance). We work with this mistake in the module "How to fix and develop your persistence" - when you need to persistently move towards the goal, but the person persistently moves in the opposite direction:)
3. An enormous amount of human power is expended in pleasing others, earning their love and affection. And also because of manipulation (problems with personality boundaries). We fix this in the module "How to fix and strengthen your self-esteem."
4. A lot of effort, time and money is spent on other people's needs imposed by advertising, parents, society. And their own are accumulated by the Everests of pain and dissatisfaction, a person cannot understand them (problems with awareness and choice). We work with this in the module “How to fix and develop your initiative”.
5. A person loses a lot when he works out of place. Some people are like a rocket that does not know that it is a rocket and works as a bucket. With a bucket, she turns out to work very badly (she is not intended for this). Therefore, self-esteem falls, self-confidence falls, financial level falls, family problems begin and chronicle. Get me to be an accountant, I will feel like the most backward, worthless, useless person in the world! And I'm unlikely to get paid much for that. To fix this, you need to go through the module "How to fix and develop your sense of purpose."
6. And planning is a whole different story. Most people don't even understand what it is, confusing it with time management and self-abuse. This is where power is wasted through fuss and blind trial and error. And that's the best case. More often, ready-made templates are taken for what they are not intended for, time, effort, money is spent, but the result is not the same. And as a result, a person refuses to do anything at all, settling for the rest of his days in a swamp. This is the hardest thing to fix (simply because most people don't even have a start). Nevertheless, I give the tools - in the module "How to fix and develop your ability to plan". And even, to my surprise, I see the results.
7. And a huge amount of forces simply grows moldy in a bottle out of fear. We work with this in the module “How to fix and develop your determination”.
If all these losses are added together, it turns out that we use our potentials by 1-5%, not more.
So it turns out that a person sits on a sack of gold and cries that he has nothing to eat:)
But this is the good news: even if you master the Course into a New Life by half (fix your psychological mistakes), your power will grow more than 12 times !!!
And if you move on (apply in life), then you will also go beyond 100%. To stop losses is just to get out of the minus. And then the person goes to plus (develops).
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