2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
There are people who do not live, but suffer.
But when you offer them to undergo paid training in order to fix this, they smile awkwardly, shrug their shoulders and press their hard-earned money to their hearts - so that they have something to pay for the continuation of their torment.
Why is this happening?
They are afraid of losing their money
Losing is when you paid, ate, took down, and again you need to earn. And when he paid and there is a profit, the effect of learning, which works and enriches, and does not end and impoverishes, then this is an investment, not a loss. But to see this difference and take advantage of it, you need to go through a paid training. But they will not pass it - because they are afraid. And … they lose their money further.
They are afraid of being manipulated
They are so used to manipulation - on TV, in stores, on the Internet, in the family - that they do not see that I am offering them a straightforward fair deal. Because they don't see the difference. To see and be able to defend yourself, you need to undergo paid training. But they will not pass it - because they are afraid. And … are being manipulated further.
They are afraid that they will be deceived
To see deception and be able to defend yourself, you need to go through training. Paid. Because free is beneficial to the one who pays for it, and not to the one who studies. But they will not pass it - because they are afraid. And … allow themselves to be deceived further.
They are afraid they will not be able to cope
To cope, you need to manage. We control only what we are aware of. And in order to realize it, you need to undergo training. But they will not pass it - because they are afraid. And … they do not cope further. A vicious, vicious circle, the ends of which are exclusively in the hands of the person himself. Not dark forces, not fate, not the universe, not a guru, not a psychologist, but in the hands of the person himself. Even if he doesn't realize it.
You look at such people, and you just want to ask
- Are you so comfortable?
- Is it really so scary - to know more than you know now?
- Do you really not want to fix, open your vicious circle?
- Do you really not want to learn how to manage your vital assets in order to live in abundance and enjoy life?
Not to be afraid.
And they smile awkwardly, shrug their shoulders and press their hard-earned ones to their hearts - so that there is something to pay for the continuation of their torment …
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