2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Psychologists, in addition to being divided by schools and areas in which they work, differ in their attitude towards the client. Talking about this relationship, I will not be too serious and fantasize a little.
So, first type psychologist. All in white, beautiful, smart and successful, his Mercedes is white, his house is made of white marble, his wife is blonde, the children are also blonde. Such a specialist in the park walks and suddenly sees in the distance a swampy pond, and in it a man. He flounders, flounders, and does not get to the shore in any way. The psychologist approaches, assesses the situation, is indignant and says: “Why are you stuck there, come on here, why are you floundering in the mud? You should be like me, you see what a white suit I have. And then about Mercedes and so on … you already know about it.
Second type. He walks through the park, his suit used to be white, but he wore a little. And he also sees that the man is in the pond and also cannot get out. The psychologist, without taking off his shoes, also flounders into the pond and flounders, his psychologist ashore, and the man rests. It would be necessary to find out, maybe he lives here and he doesn't need to get out, or maybe some kind of help is needed, or maybe something else, but the psychologist did not ask, he had no time - he needed to help. Or maybe a person is very afraid, resists this, not understanding anything. It happens in different ways.
Third type … Again the park and again the pond and the man in it. And the psychologist on the shore, and also wants to help, immediately asks the question: “Why are you there, you can't get out in any way? And he stretches out his hand, or a branch stronger, to grab onto and get out of the pond. And he says the words, good, encouraging: "Come on, just a little more, well done, very good!" And when the person is already on the shore, he will ask: “How did you get on? Why did you climb here to swim, there is a swimming area with sun loungers and drinks next to it, let’s go, I’ll show you. Can you swim? Do you want a coach's phone for good ladies? He will teach you in no time. " So the psychologist will bring the person to a safe place with conversations. Or maybe it won't help, maybe a person catches frogs in a pond or takes mud baths. Why bother, walk by and do not disturb.
These are the psychologists. The choice is up to the client.
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