2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
After my sunny travels in Cyprus (I participated in the psychological quest "I am so beautiful. I am so terrible" with Zhanna Tretyakova, Tanya Titova and Roma Vasiliev), in private practice, suddenly, brightly and somehow from the depths, the topic of beauty, attractiveness and sexuality … the simultaneous fear of intense passion and the experience of emptiness in the absence of it …
I listen to such different client stories and remember the words of Zabolotsky:
"And if so, what is beauty and why do people deify it?"
Is she a vessel in which there is emptiness?
Or a fire flickering in a vessel?"
- There are women who amaze, attract, charm. They are worshiped, poems and songs are composed in their honor, and their victories are dedicated to them. Men like them and envy other women. They love vivid emotions and sensual events … However, somewhere in the depths of their souls they can be haunted by a feeling of emptiness and loneliness, which is not filled with either fans, outfits or emotions. Only if for a while.
- There are women who find it difficult to live out their attractiveness, to show their brightness and sexuality. It is difficult for them to like the opposite sex, to make acquaintances, it is not easy for them to wear stylish and fashionable clothes. They are ashamed to allow themselves to go out to dance or sing a song. They may feel embarrassed and depressed.
And they may be afraid of their emotionality and passion, preferring to suppress it or live rationally cold. For the time being, for the time being.
Both the first and the second are somewhat limited in their own way.
- And there is a third category of women. These are women who live, women who bloom. They can be sexy when they feel like it. They can accept themselves as they are, have their own, personal attractiveness and beauty. They can be in the center of events, or they can be left alone for a while. They are distinguished by healthy vitality, involvement in life and passion for it. They feel their depth and know who they are. They do not lose themselves and feel support and fulfillment. They live from their own nature, which they understand and accept.
It seems to me that in Cyprus I went exactly this way. I know what it is not to feel attractive. I know what it means to be beautiful. I know what it means to like and dislike the opposite sex. I know what emptiness is inside and that it is impossible to close it even with the most striking events, accomplishments, accessories and love victories. There are always few of them.
And I also know what it means to finally find yourself and allow yourself to be real, alive, reacting "here and now," to rely on what is happening. Be beautiful, sexy and fulfilling.
I myself have gone this way and I know how much it gives!
Now this topic is very interesting to me, important, and I have many resources that I would like to share. I have 2 vacancies for individual work
Do you want to meet real yourself and reveal the resources of your beauty and sexuality, learn to be fulfilled, find a balance between the state of being "in a whirlpool with your head" and "desert"? Or maybe it is important for you to deal with fears and allow yourself to let temptation and sensuality into your life?
In any case, make up your mind and come!)) I will help you!)
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