2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Every day, many people pass me by who like to stand out from the crowd and for this they dress outside the box, paint, wear hats with brims the diameter of a football field. Despite this, we are still a generation of standards
We're still a generation of prejudices. We condemn laws without knowing the details. We despise those pointed out from the monitors without much trial. We criticize without reading the preface to the end.
We are still a generation that is not used to trusting ourselves. We are not used to saying that we are scared or in pain, but we skillfully abandon the ordinary "everything is fine", because we do not believe that people may care. We are not used to saying that we feel lonely, but we are used to saying "I'm just tired, too much work", because every second person boasts of this loneliness, teaching that a person should not be bored alone and you pretend that you understand everything.
We have gone so far in our attempt to understand everything, rationalizing every breath, that we have almost lost the ability to sense. The logical chain has become more important than the experience.
We are used to hiding "bad" emotions from others, because we do not like to be pitied and feel worse or weaker than such insignificant others. We smile more often because it is necessary, and not because of sincerity. And then everyone around quietly lowers their eyes, because yesterday you were laughing loudly together in your favorite bar, and today - a friend went out the window and left a note. And you are perplexed "how is that?", And all that was needed was to start to notice the details. And hear.
We want to be understood, but we are catastrophically unable to speak about ourselves in the first person. We want to be heard, but we do not know how to diagnose our own emotions, the situation is even worse with tying sentences out of them with even rows. Or even curves. We want to be helped, but we cannot squeeze this request out of ourselves, dreaming that with some magical power of thought the environment would guess by itself. And we are angry that this is not happening. And we cry when we are rejected again after that. We want to be loved. Let it not be as beautiful and perfect as in snotty tales, but really. But how often we do not know how to either love or be loved, rejecting such a desired
We are pure contradiction.
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