2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Yesterday I had another session with a beautiful, intelligent, successful girl in her thirties. Oksana (let's call her that) has been living and working for a long time in one of the European countries.
Recently Oksana registered on a dating site for the first time. First, on a paid basis, according to my recommendation, where many clients found a match for themselves
Another client of mine got married !!!
Where to look for a husband if you are already a little over thirty?
But since communication on "elite" sites turned out to be too prim and Oksana switched to the usual free "Tinder" on the recommendation of her cousin from Ukraine, where she found herself a husband and lived happily for several years
Things went much more fun on the Tinder. The really striking appearance of the Ukrainian woman, as well as humor, intelligence and excellent command of languages, attracted the attention of many men.
However, with a large number of responses to the questionnaire, likes of photos and messages, young people are somehow in no hurry to meet.
There were several meetings that disappointed Oksana not with the coincidence of intellect and social orientations.
There in Europe, too, there are, albeit not "collective farmers", but still very down to earth young people, living a simple philistine life, who do not have a special desire for a career and self-development.
Of course, Oksana is simply not interested with such people. She is a well-mannered and friendly girl, politely answers their messages, but is not ready for new meetings.
There are men with whom Oksana has a lot of coincidences in:
- intellect,
- sense of humor,
- level of education and striving for career growth
At the same time, they were the first to mark Oksana's profile as interesting and scattered in compliments, but for some reason they are in no hurry to meet.
What's the matter?
If the girl did not like it, the man would simply stop writing, but does he write, moreover, a lot and often? And he plans a meeting, but somehow not specifically.
There may be several options:
- He is hung up in the same illusion of choice and is afraid to miss other beautiful girls. But after all, an ordinary meeting on a walk (all coffee houses, alas, are closed) does not at all oblige to swear an oath of loyalty to each other forever.
- Uncertainty and fear of not being so attractive in the eyes of a girl, which means being rejected.
- Pandemic and fear of being infected. This already smacks of hypochondria and the question arises: does Oksana need such a young man?
In general, a problem with 3 unknowns appeared, where there is only one option, after the man proposed a meeting, not only to support the idea, but to offer a neutral option herself
- Oksana, you are beautiful! Want to see you.
- OK. Let's meet in square N and take a walk after work from 6 pm to 7 pm!
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