2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
What do I call "The Art of Learning"?
This is one of my favorite areas of work. It is about the fact that we learn every day without knowing it.
This is our feature as people.
We study.
We learn to either get new results every day, or get "nothing" every day.
Yes, yes - “not to study” is also a skill. A skill that many have brought to the level of a master.
It turns out that no matter how we avoid learning, we still learn. Running away from him, we run to him. But only if we learn to receive "nothing", then …
You know, the art of learning lies in the fact that this basic skill cannot be isolated. It applies to all aspects of life.
And if you are great at getting "nothing", then this will be at work, in relationships, and in any other issue that interests you.
But the art of learning is also an opportunity to “dissolve” or “untwist” old skills, old identities and create new ones of your choice.
The kind that will lead you into the life you think about, at the moment when you are left alone, when there is an opportunity to dream, dream about a better life. What is there?
Each of us knows the answer, right? We all go there periodically.
And you know what? If you were able to create this image in your head, then it is possible in reality.
It may not be easy to achieve, but it is possible.
This is the essence of all revolutionary inventions and discoveries, by the way. They, too, were once only in someone's head.
The same goes for our dreams.
Through the art of learning, we can go back to basics when things go wrong.
To its origins. To my real self.
We can find our main teacher within ourselves.
Get your answers from him.
Being at the end of the day is a little better than the sutra was.
And so every day go where you chose.
And this means that through the art of learning there is an opportunity to choose a new self.
Metaphorically speaking, the art of learning is the ability to “die” for the old and be reborn in a new role. Where everything is different. Not necessarily easier, but different.
By creating the correct chaos in ourselves, we can learn to get out of it renewed, with new abilities and values.
And these are the levels of learning that cannot be taught directly.
You can only be a guide to where you decide to go yourself.
You can observe with interest what deep knowledge, what your best content you decide to show to the world.
What new yourself will you decide to become?
There are special tools and techniques for this. One of the basic ones is "Learning Levels"
After any situation that matters to you, any meeting, meeting, date or book, ask yourself 4 questions:
1. What did I learn?
2. What can I do differently now?
3. With the help of the new behavior I can get important and valuable for me?
4. What am I becoming thanks to all this?
Do this regularly and note how your answers deepen and how subtle but inevitable you become the best version of yourself.
Learn the best!
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