2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Especially if it's just the first to write warm words of greeting to the man you like!
Let's do the exercise right away?
Take a piece of paper and answer honestly to yourself the questions:
- What is the worst thing that will happen if you write to a man first?
- What's wrong with him not answering you?
- What's wrong with him getting nasty or just writing something offensive? Do you think this rudeness is about you or about him?
- What's terrible will happen if you re-write, and then he disappears?
- What's wrong with the fact that you call him to meet, and he refuses?
- What is terrible if you meet only once, and he does not come again?
- What is terrible if you meet and are disappointed in him?
Now rate the horror of what could happen this way on a scale of 0 to 10, where 0 is the least dire consequences and 10 is the greatest
If you honestly answered all the questions and put down points, most likely you saw that nothing catastrophic, in fact, will happen!
And if we talk about the notorious female pride, then she has absolutely nothing to do with it
Pride will suffer if you break into closed doors
For example:
- the man did not answer you, but you continue to write;
- he wrote you something nasty, and instead of just laughing and blocking him, you will start making excuses or, likening to his rudeness, write something like: "Yes, you yourself are an eccentric in the letter M";
- the man disappeared or did not come to the first meeting, and you keep asking: "Why, but why?";
- you feel like you didn't make an impression on him, but you are frantically trying to fix the situation!
In all these cases, you really start, first of all, to lose yourself, demonstrating addictive behavior, which is possible only after a lot of failures. And even it is subject to correction with purposeful work on oneself.
And to take the first step towards it does not mean at all to give up your pride!
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