Rule 5 Of 64. Believe In Yourself

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Continuing to move towards improving the quality of your life, I offer you another good rule, rule 5 of 64 called “Believe in yourself”! And let me remind you that if you follow these rules for two years, your life will improve twice. The quality of life, success, free time, etc. will improve twice. So let's talk about how important it is to believe in yourself.

In general, if you intend to live the life of your dreams, then you need to understand the most important rule - you must believe in yourself, just know that you are capable of it and you have all the necessary qualities for this. Because if at least someone in this life has achieved what you want to achieve, then it is possible for you, because you are the same person as anyone else. Also, if you suddenly decide to make a breakthrough and do something completely new, then remember: there are many people who have done something new. For example, the same Thomas Edison who invented the light bulb. Accordingly, you will be able to invent something new. What one could do, so can you. For example, I always rely on this.

In general, Edison himself said a wonderful phrase: "Genius is 99% sweat and only 1% talent." And this is the thing that I am ready to adhere to all my life and say at every corner to any person: work, work and work towards your goal. And it will definitely happen sooner or later. But work not only physically, but also with your head, turn it on and think: why, if I perform these actions, there is no result? Perhaps you need to take some other action?

After all, as I said earlier: it is not the most talented, not the richest and not the fastest who wins, but the most hardworking and persistent wins. Accordingly, if you treat yourself positively enough and in combination with a mentor, training, practice, in the end, you will definitely achieve your goal.

Remember: your behavior in life depends on whether you believe in yourself or not. After all, broadcasting in the mind that “I am successful and I can” will give you the appropriate resources in life.

I would like to give you some advice so that you can believe in yourself and understand what goes with believing in yourself.

Don't compare yourself to others. For example, why did Vasya get everything easier, faster? They helped him there, and here they helped, and in general he is so all capable - so he succeeded, but I am all incapable. We closed it, turned it off. Do not compare yourself with others, compare yourself with yourself: yesterday I did not know how, last year everything was much worse for me, even the year before last I did not have so much perseverance and patience. That's all you can compare yourself to.
Friends, please do not assume that the quantity of your academic education, the quality, its level, and so on, are insufficient for you to achieve anything. If you do not have the opportunity to get a better education or, on the contrary, you already have five diplomas, I always recommend, and always for - self-education. It is more important to find a teacher, mentor, someone who will help you move forward, or, for example, a group of people who are also interested in the same knowledge as you. Why? Because everyone has moments when everything goes down, you don't want anything, nothing happens and you want to give up everything. This is, in fact, in general, the graph of any skill: first it grows, grows, then falls, and then rises again. And at this level of falling, many people quit. This is often experienced by musicians, athletes, everyone who is professionally engaged in something knows that the level of skill grows, grows, improves, improves, and then at some point, it stops and stands - nothing happens. And at this point, it is just the hardest thing to continue. Therefore, it is important and needed a mentor, teacher, psychotherapist, or coach who will inspire and keep in check, or some group of people with the same interests. After all, academic education in itself is far from always necessary, almost never. This is, perhaps, if you go into science, then, yes - there is no way without him at all. And for most other spheres, self-education is quite enough, despite the fact that now the quality of self-education can be much stronger than academic education.
The third tip - don't get discouraged by the lack of resources in terms of money. Someone is richer, someone's dad gave it, someone's mom gave it, and so on, someone's husband gave it away…. Forget it. Other people have different circumstances. If these circumstances are not about you or you, for some reason, do not want to take from your husband, wife, dad, mom, etc. funds. Accept the situation as it is. Again, don't compare! Trust me, most of today's millionaires started from scratch. And just among those to whom the parents gave money, there are significantly fewer successful people. So just ask your brain a problem: I need a certain amount of money. The main thing is that you have a plan and a goal, persistence and desire. Give your brain a goal: I need to find. And sooner or later, the brain will find it, it will be found in the field, in life, but someone will appear. The main thing is to focus on this thought.
And fourth - what follows from the previous two points - it doesn't matter what life will give you or not, it is important how you use it: physically and mentally. It is possible and a large amount of money is simply stupid to waste. And you can multiply, multiply and multiply a fairly small amount of money. Do not strive for a very quick result - this is nonsense, it does not happen. It is very important to understand this in the pursuit of success.
And the fifth point, the most important one, is that your desires should be yours personally, only yours. You do not have to satisfy the desires and goals of your parents, wives, husbands, spouses, children, friends and so on …. Forget it. This should be exactly your desire, coming from within, from you. This is what you wanted to do all your life, but could not or did not realize before. If you have not yet found this desire in yourself, seek, come to realization.

Stop looking back at condemnation or discussion of you, and your future life, your friends, and so on. We do not pay attention to society, we passed. Need to understand what is right for you? Because if you don't follow this fifth tip, you won't succeed. If you follow someone else's desires, you will not be able to achieve real success. This should be your true need, the one that we talked about in my previous publications.

Believe in yourself and achieve the best for yourself.

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