2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Author: Mezhidova Svetlana
I want to ask you how long you flirted with your husband?
Do you know how to do it again, push him to courtship, gifts and other female joys?
Having lived for some time in marriage, we very quickly forget that a man wants to receive the same joyful emotions as during the period of acquaintance.
But after a while, such attention is needed much more, it helps to revive the relationship with her husband.
Alas, many do not know how, or maybe they do not like to flirt.
I suppose that in such cases it is often accompanied by an internal conflict, one part may be against flirting, it seems to be something so difficult, and the other part wants to build relationships.
Flirting is an open display of interest
This interaction is filled with joy.
If you want to push your husband to courtship, then start getting to know each other again
-How to do it? Ask.
Remember your first information, for sure you have something to remember how you flirted with your husband then. Arrange a small performance for one viewer, the main thing is that everything should be sincere. Flirtatiousness is more appropriate, it will help revitalize the relationship and increase your attractiveness in his eyes. Try not to just walk past your husband, but touch him every time, stroke him. Show small courtesies. Arrange romantic evenings by candlelight, buy beautiful home clothes. Show him, not in words, but in deeds that he is the most important person for you, and this will be the best flirtation. Leave a little mystery and mystery for the man so that he wants to solve it gradually. And this will definitely add color to your family life.
Unfortunately, there is still another side to family relationships when it happens that you don't want to flirt with your husband at all because of resentment or misunderstanding
Therefore, I want to offer you a simple technique "I-message" (the technique is universal)
Of course, it will take some time to master this technique. This is a good tool for communicating with your husband!
Instead of pointing out to your husband how “bad” he is or how badly he is doing, it is better to describe your feelings and experiences and offer a way out of the situation.
Yes, I agree, this is not a magic wand. But that's it, it works great.
The self-message consists of several parts
First, outline your feeling. For example, "I do not like …" or "I am saddened by …".
Then describe the fact or situation. “When they shout at me” or “when my opinion is not perceived”.
Then name the reason for your feelings: "Because I am in pain" or "because I feel uncomfortable."
Show a possible way out of the situation: "Let's not hurt each other" or "Let's not create such situations."
The technique of "I-messages" does not force your husband to defend himself, but on the contrary, invites you to dialogue. The main thing is that it removes resentment and mutual accusations and labeling from communication. Gradually, using this method, you will change the situation in the family and there will be fewer reasons for conflicts. When a woman speaks her feelings in this form, then the man becomes clearer about what happened.
As the proverb says: "Forewarned is forearmed."
Flirt and it will add color to family life!
Do you manage to convey to the interlocutor with "Me-message"? Share in the comments it will be an excellent tip for those who find it difficult to form "I-messages".
May there be warmth of love and mutual understanding in your family!
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