TEST: 15 SIGNS THAT A HUSBAND IS IN A RISK GROUP FOR CHANGE:

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

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Wives and mistresses regularly ask me: "What is the" risk group "of those married men who are prone to long-term betrayal and leaving the family", what are the distinguishing features of these men? " My answer is that my observations show that it is easiest to remove from the family those men who show as many of the 15 diagnostic signs of potentially unreliable husbands as possible. (I abbreviatedly call them EGOMU, from - selfish men, as opposed to NAMU - reliable men).

15 signs that a husband is at risk for adultery:

1. A man has a very high sexual need, and, usually, requires a high responsive activity of a woman and her readiness for intimate variety and experimentation (the absence of this in the family pushes him “to the left”);

2. A man has alcohol, drug or gambling addiction (addiction neutralizes conscience, relieves feelings of shame and guilt);

3. A man is ambitious, knows his own worth, is prone to narcissism and posturing (hence the expensive gifts for his mistress), has a high conceit (if the wife has no ambitions or criticizes her husband, this destroys her marriage);

4. The man is very independent (he is able to buy an apartment himself, buy everything for the house, prepare food, etc.);

5. Active in life, not a stay-at-home, mobile, easily masters new types of activities and places of residence, is inclined to take risks (an overly passive wife remains on the sidelines);

6. A man is very sociable, has many friends (he believes in their help in life, this creates his independence from his wife, if his wife does not make friends with them and communicate regularly, friends will easily accept his new girlfriend);

7. The man is not inclined to daily systematic work, he is looking for “easy money”, prefers one-time “kalyms”, seeks to find those who would work for him or are greedy for criminal activity (if his mistress can work for him, this is her big plus);

8. A man has a large shadow income, unknown to his wife (thereby he can secretly save money for the purchase of another home, get away from large alimony, is very attractive for his mistress with his money);

9. Husband allowed such a reality to arise in which the wife did not realize herself in her career and is completely financially dependent on her husband (and therefore will not be able to take the necessary countermeasures against him, if he suddenly leaves the family, will be forced to completely follow his lead);

10. At this point in time, a man's career and income are going "uphill" (men almost never leave the family in a difficult period for themselves, except for those cases when a mistress can give new success in life);

11. A man during a meeting with his mistress turns off the phone so that his wife does not call (thereby showing his disregard for the fate of the family);

12. A man spends the night with his mistress a short time after the start of the relationship (the wife’s naivety creates conditions for the rapid development of the relationship);

13. A man spends weekends and holidays with his mistress, goes on vacation with her; (that is, the wife has no control over her husband at all!)

14. A man does not depend on the opinion of his parents and relatives (that is, they cannot stop him when leaving the family);

15. A man does not care about the issue of intimate protection, does not use a condom, completely relies on chance, can easily agree that his mistress give birth to him outside of marriage, and send a woman to an abortion.

Of course, hardworking men who are careful in matters of protection and stingy in spending on women also give birth to mistresses. But to take such people out of the family is extremely difficult, almost impossible. Therefore, the listed 15 signs are still indicative. And the more of these signs in a man's behavior, the lower his connection with his wife, who in fact turned out to be unable to properly tame and control her husband, the easier it is to become “close and necessary” to him, in order to then take him away from the family.

But the medal always has a second side: the more disregard a man behaves towards his existing family, the higher the likelihood that this man will behave in the same way towards his mistress if she becomes his wife.

And, accordingly, there is a higher chance that, finally, becoming a wife and changing her behavior to a calmer one, the former mistress will find out with horror that her seemingly “subdued” man continues his triumphant march through other people's beds.

If you would like to understand this issue, then I described it in detail in the article "I Love Married"