Bulimia And Anorexia. Reasons And What To Do?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

The program "Let them talk" told the story of one girl about how she lost 54 kg.

It is interesting that her constitution is not inclined to be overweight: thin bone, and the skin after losing weight, took its original shape. Not everyone has such a constitution and the skin does not tighten so perfectly. Sometimes plastic surgery is used. But she's still great. I found the strength and will to have an attractive shape!

What's going on? For what reasons does a person gain weight or lose weight?

First. In stressful situations, a person begins to "chew" the pain. He starts eating. More sensitive, calms down by chewing anything. And he no longer needs stress, any discomfort is enough. And thoughts about food become central to life. You can call this symptom: bulimia nervosa.

It can be compared to alcohol and smoking

A person simply does not understand and does not think about what he is doing. By looking in the refrigerator, he can eat whatever he sees and still remain hungry. At night, there is also an attack of hunger, and the legs themselves lead to the kitchen.

There was such a case with one woman. She was sent for an operation on the female side. And her husband came to visit her, and brought what was forbidden to her: fried - chicken and potatoes, bread, eggs. And while he sat and talked with her, she smothered it all. When, the next day, the doctor asked her what she ate, she replied that only what was in the diet of the surgical department. She didn't even remember what she ate during the conversation. She was kind of in a trance state. Her state of stress put her brain in a defensive position, and he demanded food.

So what happens to the body, and what is the reason for uncontrolled hunger?

I always work with the soul of a person, because, having cured the soul, other information enters the brain, and it begins to perceive the world in a different way.

The soul is very receptive and has a tendency to be afraid. She, as it were, protects herself with a fat layer from the outside world. As a result, a person eats without control, not understanding and not remembering what he is doing. When there is a first acquaintance with a problem, stress, fear, a person begins to eat, the soul sends information to the brain. The brain remembers this state, and the body begins to calm down. And the next time, under stress, the brain gives the answer what needs to be done in a given situation.

The same thing happens with anorexia

The brain learns information that a beautiful girl should be thin (information from television, radio, newspapers). And sets a program for the non-perception of food. The soul is against this artificial process. A conflict arises where the body becomes the "scapegoat". It destroys itself. The soul wants to leave the body.

Naturally, for bulimia and anorexia, the person is in a depressed state. This begins to happen after a strong shock (yet I do not correspond to the ideal, as on the cover of a magazine, my husband constantly reproaches that I am fat or thin)

Souls choose two ways to deal with this issue. The first is the accumulation of fat around you, protecting yourself from others, the second is the destruction of yourself from the inside. Both methods lead to destruction and the search for death.

Can anyone help? There are many methods of treatment: fitness, diet. But, from practice, it is clear that there is little sense. We need, of course, a systematic approach. First of all, it is working with the cause of the occurrence. From when did this problem arise, what event happened at the initial stage? Look inside yourself, into your past experiences. Psychotherapy, hypnosis can help. A person needs to go through these stressful conditions. As they say, if you are scared, go for fear. The body, when faced with a problem for the first time, was frightened. I chose a way to destroy myself. Therefore, it is necessary to step into this situation again. Live, feel, shake things up, accept pain, betrayal, disappointment, etc. Accept, forgive and let go.

After a person has a desire to live and all offenses have passed, you can start a diet, a lesson in fitness.

Any pain, resentment is pity, first of all, for oneself. Over time, a person gets used to being in this state. It becomes profitable for him to be like that. Now I feel that a lot of protest has come from your side. But it is so. I feel sorry for myself, I was offended and now I will suffer. I can't go in for sports, I can't go on a diet, and I don't want to part with my mental pain!

Get out of bed, go to the store yourself (stop sending your loved ones), make the bed yourself, take out the trash. In a word, we feel less sorry for ourselves, with our actions, the body begins to program itself for “life”. Dear relatives! Stop feeling sorry for these selfish people!

"Kicking" them - we save them!

I'll tell you a parable about a hunchback.

One Hunchback came to the doctor and asked him to cure him. Removed his hump.

Since the Hunchback was at many doctors and knew that he would not be cured. I thought that now the doctor would take pity on the poor and unfortunate patient, and give him money, and maybe something else. And the doctor says: Great! I will cure you! Take off your clothes! I own special methods and I can deprive you of this terrible hump in half an hour. And tomorrow you already, my dear, will run and jump healthy!

The hunchback tensed and somehow turned into a gossamer. -Now, in half an hour? Are you out of your mind? I'm used to living this way! They give me money, they feed me for free. They are sorry. I can sleep wherever I want and for free! I need this hump! You are a crazy and abnormal doctor! - said the Hunchback and left the doctor's office.