2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
New life.
In the beginning, there was boundless love. With the advent of a new life, your life changes forever. Perhaps you have not yet understood this, it does not matter, the main thing is that you are already immersed in this new habitat and it surrounds you from all sides. Most likely, this is one of three turning points in your life along with your birth and death, and the emergence of a new life marks your personal transition from birth to death, metaphorical, but so realistically presented.
I think that at this intermediate transfer station we get access to absolutely all our feelings and experiences that we lost on the way here, as the child grows, our traumas will be resurrected in us and we will be able to live them again and heal. Or not. At this point you will recognize all your demons by sight, or, you will see your face in the face of a child. One of two things, either see or be seen. Here you will encounter all your complexes and see how the compensatory mechanism works when you try to be what you are not, and how this will be brutally revealed later. Demons will not leave you alone with their creation, they will help create an illusion, a real phantom of a living parent, about which you dreamed, and about which you know nothing at all. So how do you play this role? For whom?
Having a child is equally difficult for both women and men. This immense joy, overwhelming you, lives in your heart in a suite, in a hotel in the chaos of an overpopulated area of the city. You can enter the decree, but getting out of it is absolutely not easy. Moms and dads can get stuck there for a long time, dragging grandparents, cats and dogs, and sometimes neighbors along with them. Demons make an illusion out of you, which you try to bring to life, expecting huge dividends in the long run. And it’s so scary to admit your weakness to him and be at the same time categorically accepted and loved, because this destroys your ideas about your conditional acceptance of people and the world. You need to support your legend about the correctness of perception, about your inability to love just like that, without any reasons and conditions. At this moment, hordes of correct dads and mothers are born, successful and charismatic, exemplary and strong, paradoxically far from the naturalness and simplicity of their child.
After all, this is a chance, you say to yourself, a chance to make yourself what you dreamed of being in your utopia of compensation for your worthlessness, this is a chance to do it and show what you can. And you begin to act, moreover, inaction, this is also an active action in this case (and in others too). Demons whisper in your ear, guide you, lead you farther and farther away from the simplicity of self-perception, into the distance to the shores of restless prosperity. And in the end, you are already someone you would never want to be in your life and whose name you will surely hear 16 years after the birth of a child. You are a fake of yourself. And this will be partly your most realistic reality.
What began with love turns into a farce (or minced meat?) Under the onslaught of your desire to be something more than the person who is next to you. After all, we know, we know for sure that in life we need very little for happiness, we understand this perfectly well, but we do everything to get ourselves a little more, then a little more, then a little more, and now we are on the edge of the abyss in loneliness and despair. Look at the child, he is simple, he is already perfect, and he needs you the same, perfectly simple.
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