When The Fear Of Error Kills

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When The Fear Of Error Kills
When The Fear Of Error Kills
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… Let yourself be wrong

And take the wrong action. It happened, therefore, it is no worse than all the others, produced by you or anyone else. Moreover, erroneous actions have their own beauty, and hence the intention of the living natural existence of the organism with all its content, which manifests itself - whether we want it or not.

Let us turn to nature, the animal world, and we will see erroneous actions in any moving, actively acting animal. And erroneous actions are no less beautiful in their processuality, naturalness, as the rest, more accurate …

So what if your presence, awareness was lacking in him, in this action?

Or knowledge of how it was necessary, how it was right?

Does anyone know for certain how it was necessary right now or is it correct? To the one who thought that it was necessary in a different way, and was upset or indignant about what was done not the way he thought?

And if we assume that our, as well as those of others, ideas and expectations about what is right and how it is necessary are illusory? Then, acting not in accordance with them, making mistakes, what remains? Continue to act, adding awareness, presence in your action, checking it against intentions and goals.

Therefore…

… Allow yourself to act

Act and make mistakes - because mistakes are inevitable.

An action can and should be enjoyable, therefore, when there are few resources and there is a great fear of making a mistake, it is better to start with just such - the very process of which brings pleasure, leads to peace of mind and / or inspiration. Then the correct attitude is revealed to mistakes - an exploratory, deepening presence, concentration in action. Because of this, pleasure grows - from involvement, immersion in the process, awareness of its correctness as a whole, the state of “I-know-what-I'm-doing”, from oneself-acting, in the end.

And none of the outsiders will be able to knock you out of this process - whether with criticism, or with comments about how it should be …

Thus, actions are performed naturally, developing into an activity in which each time there is more freedom, confidence, achievements, acceptance and recognition of oneself, the courage to be recognized and accepted by others. Despite possible mistakes, in spite of them.

The assumption of the possibility of error in the process of activity forms and allows the manifestation of courage. Courage is the key to expressing yourself as you are.

So…

… Allow yourself to manifest

To manifest means to be seen by others.

Who are the others? Well-wishers, neutral, ill-wishers. Friends (from the word "accept") and non-friends, among whom are often the aggressors. Someone needs more from you, someone less. Most don't want anything from you. But it is important for each of us to be accepted by others. And how is it possible to achieve this without manifesting outside? No way.

It is impossible to be accepted by everyone. Moreover, it is impossible to be fully understood by other people. This means that the path to acceptance is not easy and not fast, but possible. The main thing is courage, patience and the ability to navigate, among whom you are, from whom do you expect acceptance: from friends or non-friends? Mistakes are inevitable here, and working on them gives us wisdom at the end …

Everyone has the right to seek and focus on those who see us, understand and want this, who wish us well. These people will help and support us - so that there are enough resources to meet with others, to overcome, and further develop …

In the end, it doesn't really matter whether the majority or the few accept you, if what you do makes sense to you, benefits others, makes you feel alive.

This meaningful activity, meeting and overcoming difficulties according to the forces, which, in essence, life tasks and without which it is boring, the joy of achievements, discoveries, pleasure from all this - in fact, is life itself.

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