2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
If you analyze what you communicate with each other, what% is the conversation about something easy and pleasant?
I also have 2 questions for you:
Are you afraid to share with others something pleasant from your life?
Do you know how to sincerely rejoice for the pleasant moments of others?
Somehow it turns out that in our society it is not customary to talk about achievements, success, about our own happiness and harmony in life, about the good deeds that we do. Today I would like to touch upon the topic of good deeds. And in the end, I will answer my own questions from the perspective of personal experience.
The phrase came to mind: "Let the left hand not know what the right hand is doing." She is often remembered when it comes to participating in helping people. As a rule, we can talk about this because we have previously collected funds and we need to make a report. Or we are going to collect the necessary needs.
Many people, and myself, prefer not to talk about helping someone. In the eyes of society, there is no collective intelligence, it is indecent to talk about charity.
And for me personally, this causes an internal protest. Why can we talk about something bad and this is, oh, how welcomed, but we are ashamed of the good? Thus, we are overgrown with a continuous negative, from which it is difficult to emerge.
I believe that by talking about our good deeds, we are giving others the opportunity to do the same. Perhaps someone lives in a home-work-family regime, and did not even think of participating in a charity project. At the same time, he gladly responds and asks for the future to invite him to cooperation.
In addition, it becomes so joyful inside that something good and pleasant is happening next to us. This creates a warm space around. Moreover, there are many like-minded people who, like us, want to cultivate positivity.
In addition, I am for people to share their joy, while others know how and learn to sincerely share it with them.
The people around me, for the most part, try to see life as colorful and choose to be happy. Although there are options that are looking for a catch in some kind of good story, or cannot share the joy with me. With good intentions, they always want to warn something. From the category "bought an apartment, be careful with your neighbors to be decent." However, this does not spoil the overall picture of my being. This is just their opinion and experience.
In general, why am I all this?
Share joy, share good deeds. Yes, you will hear negative comments from some people. At the same time, those who “have wanted for a long time, but could not start” will also say “thank you”. Or, with your story, you will give someone a ray of warmth.
Don't be shy or afraid. On the contrary, the space that we cultivate is curled from each of us. One brave person who voiced his good deeds is enough for the rest to catch up.
Who wants to talk about their affairs, or share their joy, write in the comments. Personally, I would be happy to share this with you.
Speaking about myself, every month I help financially one priest and his modest church. My parents are helping one child who is sick.
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