Personal Business

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

In the conditions of the modern world, almost everyone has a desire to do their own business, and what a huge number of parasites can flock to this desire, with personal growth trainings, promotion, positive thinking, self-confidence. All these are excellent, theoretical foundations of the beginning of the movement, but in practice everything turns out to be different, all parasitic ideas do not work.

Analyzing the articles, I came to the conclusion what works as a result.

In my opinion, the following mechanisms for starting your own business can be distinguished.

1. You need to idealize your idea, believe in it selflessly and sacredly, otherwise you simply will not start. Disappointment before the start will ruin the very idea, inspiration and business in the bud. Idealization of oneself and the idea of one's own business gives rise to hope, the belief that everything will work out, adrenaline muffles fear. It makes no sense to think everything through in advance, of course, you need a plan in general terms, but "the war will show you the plan." at this stage, will not let you fall in love with your idea. It is important not only to believe that everything will work out, it is important to desperately want it, it is also important to disappoint and reach the point of no return in everything that came before. Idealization is the first mechanism that will help overcome the fear of starting, proposing, investing, taking risks.
2. Still, with the second point, I would like to designate separately the "point of no return" the moment that is familiar to every person, the moment when we say: "I can't do this anymore!" And it is not just that I cannot, but I will bear with it a little more. This state should be not experienced, impossible, humiliating, so much that it would be possible to burn all attempts to return! So that it would be much easier to step into the unknown into the abyss than to return to the familiar, warm swamp and slowly rot there all my life, quite possibly very much even rejoicing in this rotting. The second point I designate, because in order to take a step into the unknown, there must be strength and desire, there must be something that will help overcome fear. It can only be a dream!
3. Removing illusions is a very important and difficult stage in building your own business. In working for oneself, there comes a moment when the idealized dream collides with reality, and idealization subsides. We remove from ourselves the illusion that we can do everything, everything will work out, you just need to believe. No, it doesn't work that way, and here, at this stage, a tactic, a strategy, an action plan is born, born not in theory, but in reality! It is extremely dangerous to idealize in this moment, because it is already an illusion, it becomes a trap. At this stage, all the paths back are already cut off, but the new has not yet been built reliably and efficiently, the first disappointment sets in. A person loses the spell of idealization and descends to earth, which must be said, is rather painful, but necessary. This period is quite depressing, because you do not want to believe that your ideal idea, and you yourself are not so ideal, but it gives you the opportunity to evaluate your strengths, analyze the experience gained and build a business that can generate income, develop and grow.
4. Relying only on yourself. Only one person can manage a business, of course, he can assemble a reliable team of like-minded people, but only one person can be responsible for development and promotion. They say that a fish rots from the head, but a fish should also have one head! Otherwise, it will turn out like in a fable, "but things are still there." This does not negate the fact that there may be advisers, it is worth collecting opinions and information from different sources, no, this is all necessary. We are talking about making a decision and taking responsibility for it, this should be done by one person, in case of success he is a fine fellow, in case of failure, he has gained experience and there is no one to blame, only you!
5. Constant movement forward and into the depths! In business, as in the entire life process, constant movement, development, dynamics and transformation are necessary. Quite often, at personal growth trainings, I am faced with moving forward, with the desire for achievements, success and other attributes of success, but this is not enough! In addition to moving horizontally forward, it is also necessary to move vertically in depth and in height! This means that every person, in addition to the desire to grow, must expand and gain experience, change morally and philosophically. Then he will not just take off, but also a reliable, high-quality success for a long time, for his whole life. It is extremely important to gain not only quantitative characteristics of success, but also qualitative ones. Continuous development in all directions is not always like chasing the Blue Bird. Sometimes it is important to stop and look into the depths, wonder where and why I am running now, whether I need it or now I will stand and wait. Sometimes it is just such a stop that allows you to soberly assess the situation and not make mistakes that lead to destruction.

I have not written a strategy for a successful business, its plan and method of action, it is pointless to write this, because everyone has their own path and their own plans and ideas. Rather, it describes the stages of the inner work of each person who decided to change their life!